The real Ward McAllister, friend to Mrs Astor and Mrs Bertha Russell in The Gilded Age, is based on a real gentleman in 19th-century New York society…

By Elinor Evans

Published: Sunday, 29 October 2023 at 17:01 PM


Ward McAllister (played by Nathan Lane in The Gilded Age) is remembered as a socially ambitious Southern gentleman from Savannah, Georgia. Born in 1827, McAllister later moved from Georgia to California with his father, establishing a law firm and making a fortune.

By the mid-1800s, he had made a name for himself as a social arbiter in East Coast society, after touring Europe and observing closely how wealthy Americans conducted themselves.

Ward McAllister
The real Ward McAllister. (Image by Getty Images)

Cultivating a network within such circles (he founded the Society of Patriarchs in 1872, which comprised of a group of 25 ‘worthy gentlemen’ from New York society), McAllister was soon regarded as a tastemaker.

He would often cherry-pick friends from both old money and new, matchmaking where he saw an expedient opportunity that would better society (and perhaps burnish his own reputation along the way).

Ward McAllister, played by Nathan Lane
Ward McAllister, played by Nathan Lane (centre) in period drama ‘The Gilded Age’, was a social arbiter in late 19th century New York. (Alison Rosa Cohen © 2021 Heyday Productions, LLC and Universal Television LLC)

Together, he and the famed Mrs Astor worked together to shun undesirables and elevate the deserving, protecting (as they saw it) the traditions of the old families, including during the War of the Operas. He’s often credited with the phrase, ‘the Four Hundred’.

“There are only about four hundred people in fashionable New York Society,” he told the New York Tribune in 1888. “If you go outside that number,” he warned, “you strike people who are either not at ease in a ballroom or else make other people not at ease.”

Four years later, the New York Times published an ‘official’ list of the Four Hundred deemed acceptable by McAllister and other social judges of the day.

His book Society As I Have Found It was published in 1890. He died in 1895.