With the publication of his memoir, Gleed\u2019s \u2018confirmed bachelor\u2019 status caused concern for the publisher of his memoir, so he agreed to create a fictional girlfriend called Pam. She was a surprise to his family and friends, but Gleed explained to them that she didn\u2019t exist and that he put her in because \u201creaders like a touch of romance\u201d. What his family probably never knew was that Gleed was homosexual, and that he could not be open about his sexuality and talk about his boyfriends.<\/p>\n
It was not until the 1990s, when one of his lovers, Christopher Gotch, was interviewed for BBC television, that the truth came out. When Gotch was posted to Gleed\u2019s RAF station, he found himself the object of Gleed\u2019s affections: \u201cHe gave me a kiss which took me by surprise but, being a product of a public school, it wasn\u2019t exactly strange. So we started having sex together.\u201d Gotch explained that no one ever talked about same-sex relationships because they were against the law. In the armed services they were court-martial offences and servicemen could be kicked out if discovered. It was widely believed that homosexuality would destroy morale, something Gotch decried as \u201ca load of rubbish\u201d.<\/p>\n
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Another wartime myth concerned the inability of homosexuals to show bravery under fire. Conscripted in 1941 at the age of 20, Dudley Cave joined the Royal Army Ordnance Corps. He later recalled a conversation he overheard between two of his comrades. One referred to him as a \u201cnancy boy\u201d while the other protested that Dudley couldn\u2019t be because he was \u201cterribly brave in action\u201d. Dudley understood that in their minds he could not be brave and homosexual, that the two were incompatible.<\/p>\n
Bravery was not the preserve of fighting men because others in the services had to keep a stiff upper lip when they were confronted by the horrors of war. Alec Purdie discovered this after he joined the army. When he received his call-up papers, his gay friends told him he didn\u2019t have to join up. \u201cTell \u2018em you\u2019re queer!\u201d they said, but Alec didn\u2019t want to avoid conscription: \u201cI was determined to do my duty.\u201d Little did he know he was going to spend half his army career in a dress and high-heels.<\/p>\n
Homosexuality in PoW camps<\/h2>\n
Wearing \u2018lashes and slap\u2019, he joined a troupe of army entertainers that brought a smile to troops serving in remote parts of India, \u201cbecause it was too dangerous for civilians and women\u201d. Alec also went to many field hospitals where he entertained \u201cthese lovely boys who had had terrible things done to them and were trying to clap and laugh at me. It was too awful.\u201d<\/p>\n
The unpublished memoir of JH Witte offers some revealing insights into homosexuality in a prisoner of war camp in Italy. A heterosexual, Witte describes the love affairs of the \u201cboy friends\u201d and their \u201cgirl friends\u201d (female impersonators who entertained in shows in the PoW camp\u2019s theatre). He also mentions a corporal in the Military Police who was \u201cviolently\u201d in love with one of the \u201cactresses\u201d. When they went missing during roll call, the Italian guards who found them snuggled under a blanket put them together into solitary for a week. Witte testifies that homosexual liaisons existed between all kinds of prisoners in the camp, and took many forms, from parcel sharing, holding hands and heavy petting to full-on sexual relationships.<\/p>\n
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After his rejection by the army on the grounds that he was \u201csuffering from sexual perversion\u201d, Quentin Crisp enjoyed the war years, especially when the United States entered the conflict and began to flood Britain with handsome GIs. Crisp described this exciting arrival in his autobiography The Naked Civil Servant<\/em> (1968): \u201cLabelled \u2018with love from Uncle Sam\u2019 and packaged in uniforms so tight that in them their owners could fight for nothing but their honour, these \u2018bundles for Britain\u2019 leaned against the lamp-posts of Shaftesbury Avenue or lolled on the steps of thin-lipped statues of dead English statesmen.\u201d<\/p>\n
Parading the streets of London in the black out, and enjoying brief encounters with the Yanks, Crisp commented: \u201cNever in the history of sex was so much offered to so many by so few.\u201d<\/p>\n
During the Second World War, the popular entertainer Noel Coward wanted to do his bit, and sought official war work, but Prime Minister Winston Churchill<\/a> insisted that Coward could do more for the war effort by entertaining the troops: \u201cGo and sing to them when the guns are firing \u2013 that\u2019s your job!\u201d Coward proved to be a popular figure with the troops, and in 1942 he made \u2013 and starred in \u2013 the patriotic film drama In Which We Serve<\/em>, inspired by the exploits of his close friend Lord Louis Mountbatten<\/a>.<\/p>\n
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Though it remained a criminal offence until the 1960s, for the most part homosexuality was unofficially tolerated in the armed services for the duration of the war. For some heterosexual servicemen, homosexual sex was considered preferable to going to brothels and catching a sexually transmitted disease. Some gay men could be open and were protected by their comrades; others were considered good for morale and became \u2018mascots\u2019. One British soldier repressed his homosexuality and left letters from a fictitious son lying about his barracks. Others, who were found out, were court-martialled, imprisoned and thrown out of the services.<\/p>\n
At the end of the war, the British public wanted to get back to \u2018normal\u2019, so women were expected to return to the kitchen, black recruits were expected to return to west Africa and the West Indies, and homosexuals found themselves subjected to the draconian law that would see them in prison, even if they had helped to win the war. In 1945, the Public Morality Council officer noted: \u201cPolice are again conducting a campaign against those engaged in this deplorable offence.\u201d<\/p>\n
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