{"id":31772,"date":"2023-12-27T11:35:51","date_gmt":"2023-12-27T10:35:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.historyextra.com\/?p=81207"},"modified":"2023-12-27T23:11:42","modified_gmt":"2023-12-27T22:11:42","slug":"queen-victorias-unhappy-childhood-life-under-the-kensington-system","status":"publish","type":"rss_feed","link":"https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/bbchistory\/rss_feed\/queen-victorias-unhappy-childhood-life-under-the-kensington-system\/","title":{"rendered":"Queen Victoria\u2019s unhappy childhood: life under the \u2018Kensington System\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"rssexcerpt\"> What was Queen Victoria like as a child? And did she have a normal childhood? Here, historian Lucy Worsley explores the monarch\u2019s youth at Kensington Palace \u2013 where she lived under the rules of the &#8216;Kensington System&#8217; \u2013 and finds that it might not have been as unhappy as Victoria herself would have had us believe <\/p><p class=\"rssauthor\">By Lucy Worsley\n                \t\t<\/p><p class=\"rssbyline\">Published: Wednesday, 27 December 2023 at 10:35 AM<\/p><hr class=\"no-tts wp-block-separator\"\/><?xml version=\"1.0\" encoding=\"UTF-8\" standalone=\"yes\"?>\n<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><body> <p><!-- image removed --><\/p>\n<p>On 24 May 1819, a baby girl was born at Kensington Palace. It\u00a0was then the least fashionable of the royal palaces, hidden away behind the lime trees of its wide green gardens to the west of London.<\/p>\n<p>The arrival of Alexandrina Victoria, as she was christened, did cause some excitement. A\u00a0long line of carriages calling for news about the health of the mother, the Duchess of Kent, reached all the way to Hyde Park Corner. But at that point the new baby, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.historyextra.com\/membership\/history-explorer-the-decline-of-george-iii\/\">King George III<\/a>\u2019s latest granddaughter, was fairly low down the royal pecking order.<\/p>\n<p>As the years of her childhood passed, however, and as her elder cousins failed to thrive and died, Alexandrina Victoria grew in importance. It gradually emerged that the little girl growing up quietly behind closed doors at Kensington Palace would one day reign over the whole of the British Isles, including Ireland. And, in due course, a quarter of the globe\u2019s landmass.<\/p>\n<div class=\"image-handler__container image-handler__container--full\" style=\"padding-bottom: calc(100% * (406 \/ 621));\"> <picture> <source media=\"(max-width: 320px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2019\/05\/GettyImages-513688265-347013e-e1703672371102.jpg?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=300%2C196, https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2019\/05\/GettyImages-513688265-347013e-e1703672371102.jpg?webp=true&amp;quality=45&amp;resize=600%2C392 2x\" type=\"image\/webp\"> <source media=\"(max-width: 320px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2019\/05\/GettyImages-513688265-347013e-e1703672371102.jpg?quality=90&amp;resize=300%2C196, https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2019\/05\/GettyImages-513688265-347013e-e1703672371102.jpg?quality=45&amp;resize=600%2C392 2x\" type=\"image\/jpeg\"> <source media=\"(max-width: 375px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2019\/05\/GettyImages-513688265-347013e-e1703672371102.jpg?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=355%2C232\" type=\"image\/webp\"> <source media=\"(max-width: 375px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2019\/05\/GettyImages-513688265-347013e-e1703672371102.jpg?quality=90&amp;resize=355%2C232\" type=\"image\/jpeg\"> <source media=\"(max-width: 425px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2019\/05\/GettyImages-513688265-347013e-e1703672371102.jpg?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=405%2C265\" type=\"image\/webp\"> <source media=\"(max-width: 425px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2019\/05\/GettyImages-513688265-347013e-e1703672371102.jpg?quality=90&amp;resize=405%2C265\" type=\"image\/jpeg\"> <source media=\"(max-width: 589px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2019\/05\/GettyImages-513688265-347013e-e1703672371102.jpg?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=554%2C362\" type=\"image\/webp\"> <source media=\"(max-width: 589px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2019\/05\/GettyImages-513688265-347013e-e1703672371102.jpg?quality=90&amp;resize=554%2C362\" type=\"image\/jpeg\"> <source media=\"(min-width: 992px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2019\/05\/GettyImages-513688265-347013e-e1703672371102.jpg?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=620%2C405\" type=\"image\/webp\"> <source media=\"(min-width: 992px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2019\/05\/GettyImages-513688265-347013e-e1703672371102.jpg?quality=90&amp;resize=620%2C405\" type=\"image\/jpeg\"> <source media=\"(min-width: 768px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2019\/05\/GettyImages-513688265-347013e-e1703672371102.jpg?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=408%2C267\" type=\"image\/webp\"> <source media=\"(min-width: 768px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2019\/05\/GettyImages-513688265-347013e-e1703672371102.jpg?quality=90&amp;resize=408%2C267\" type=\"image\/jpeg\"> <source media=\"(min-width: 590px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2019\/05\/GettyImages-513688265-347013e-e1703672371102.jpg?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=556%2C364\" type=\"image\/webp\"> <source media=\"(min-width: 590px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2019\/05\/GettyImages-513688265-347013e-e1703672371102.jpg?quality=90&amp;resize=556%2C364\" type=\"image\/jpeg\"> <img class=\"wp-image-81489 align size-landscape_thumbnail image-handler__image image-handler__image--full no-wrap js-lazyload\" srcset=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" data-src=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2019\/05\/GettyImages-513688265-347013e-e1703672371102.jpg?quality=90&amp;resize=620%2C405\" width=\"620\" height=\"413\" alt=\"The young Victoria with her mother, Victoire, Duchess of Kent, in an 1821 portrait by William Beechey. \" title=\"The young Victoria with her mother, Victoire, Duchess of Kent, in an 1821 portrait by William Beechey. \"\/>\n<\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/picture>\n<\/div><div class=\"caption-hold\"><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span class=\"caption-copy\"><i class=\"icon-arrow icon-camera-circle\"\/> The young Victoria with her mother, Victoire, Duchess of Kent, in an 1821 portrait by William Beechey. \u201cMy greatest of fears was that I loved her too much,\u201d said Victoire. (Photo by Kean Collection\/Getty Images)<\/span><\/figcaption><span class=\"im-image-caption\"\/><\/div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2>The death of Queen Victoria\u2019s father<\/h2>\n<p>Just as <a href=\"https:\/\/www.historyextra.com\/period\/victorian\/queen-victoria-facts-life-children-prince-albert-husband-marriage-reign\/\">Queen Victoria<\/a>\u2019s path to the throne was not obvious at the time of her birth, her education and training for the position seem at first sight to have been quite shockingly inadequate. One of the problems was the early loss of her father, the Duke of Kent.<\/p>\n<p>He\u00a0had terrible debts, caused partly by an expensive refurbishment of his apartment at Kensington. In the winter of 1819\u201320, he tried to save money by taking his beloved wife and baby daughter to live cheaply in a rented holiday house, out-of-season, at Sidmouth in\u00a0Devon. There he caught pneumonia and passed away.<\/p>\n<p>This left his widowed duchess, whose name was Victoire, in a difficult position. German, and only recently married to her duke, she spoke no English and felt ostracised by the rest of the royal family. She had few resources, either financial or intellectual, on which to fall back for the care of her daughter.<\/p> <div class=\"brightcove embed\"> <div class=\"embed__intrinsic\"> <div class=\"brightcove__player vjs-playlist-player-container\"> <video data-video-id=\"6343911207112\" data-account=\"6209817320001\" data-player=\"92UVgBOQ6\" data-embed=\"default\" data-application-id=\"\" controls=\"\" class=\"video-js\"> <\/video> <\/div> <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<script src=\"\/\/players.brightcove.net\/6209817320001\/92UVgBOQ6_default\/index.min.js\"\/> <p>One person who knew Victoire, Duchess of Kent, described her as \u201cvery delightful, in spite of want of brains\u201d. If she was scatty and disorganised, she was also warm and loving. Her late husband\u2019s will now placed Victoire in an unusual situation. Normally, a child in the line of succession would be handed over to the reigning monarch for education and guardianship. But the Duke of Kent had loved and trusted his wife, and made her guardian of their daughter instead.<\/p>\n<p>This was a duty Victoire intended to carry through. The rest of the royal family would perhaps have preferred it if she\u2019d slipped back off to her native Germany \u2013 but Victoire remained. The\u00a0daunting implication was that, if her daughter came to the throne before she was 18, Victoire herself would become regent of Britain. She would effectively be reigning over a country of which she could not even speak the language.<\/p>\n<p><!-- image removed --><\/p>\n<div class=\"row\"> <div class=\"col-10 offset-1\"> <div class=\"embed\"> <div class=\"template-article__pullquote mt-md mb-md\"> <blockquote class=\"pullquote heading-4\"> <span class=\"pullquote__icon pullquote__icon--left icon-pullquote\" data-grunticon-embed=\"\"\/>She wasn\u2019t allowed to sleep alone, play with other girls or even walk downstairs without someone holding her hand<span class=\"pullquote__icon pullquote__icon--right icon-pullquote\" data-grunticon-embed=\"\"\/> <\/blockquote> <\/div> <\/div> <\/div>\n<\/div> <p>Unfortunately, Victoire lacked confidence in herself. \u201cI am not fit for my place, no, I am not,\u201d she would say. \u201cI am just an old stupid goose.\u201d No wonder that she now fell into the outstretched hands of a man on whom she would come greatly to rely: her late husband\u2019s adjutant from his army days, John Conroy.<\/p>\n<h2>Who was Sir John Conroy?<\/h2>\n<p>Conroy was a 6ft, black-haired, good-looking chancer from an Irish background. It\u2019s easy to see how Victoire was forced by necessity, loneliness and incapacity to depend on the man who became her advisor and factotum (an employee who takes on several types of work). Her husband\u2019s death had left her both distraught and penniless. Her brother Leopold came down to Sidmouth to help out, but failed to bring her any ready money. \u201c<em>Gut, gut<\/em> Leopold,\u201d as Victoire called him, in her German accent, was nevertheless \u201crather slow in the uptake and in making decisions\u201d. It was Conroy, with his \u201cactivity and capability\u201d, who arranged a loan for her at Coutts bank.<\/p>\n<div class=\"image-handler__container image-handler__container--aspect\" style=\"padding-bottom: calc(100% \/ 1.501210653753);\"> <picture> <source media=\"(max-width: 320px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-3248853-12134e6.png?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=299%2C199, https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-3248853-12134e6.png?webp=true&amp;quality=45&amp;resize=599%2C399 2x\" type=\"image\/webp\"> <source media=\"(max-width: 320px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-3248853-12134e6.png?quality=90&amp;resize=299%2C199, https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-3248853-12134e6.png?quality=45&amp;resize=599%2C399 2x\" type=\"image\/png\"> <source media=\"(max-width: 375px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-3248853-12134e6.png?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=354%2C236\" type=\"image\/webp\"> <source media=\"(max-width: 375px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-3248853-12134e6.png?quality=90&amp;resize=354%2C236\" type=\"image\/png\"> <source media=\"(max-width: 425px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-3248853-12134e6.png?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=404%2C269\" type=\"image\/webp\"> <source media=\"(max-width: 425px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-3248853-12134e6.png?quality=90&amp;resize=404%2C269\" type=\"image\/png\"> <source media=\"(max-width: 589px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-3248853-12134e6.png?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=554%2C369\" type=\"image\/webp\"> <source media=\"(max-width: 589px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-3248853-12134e6.png?quality=90&amp;resize=554%2C369\" type=\"image\/png\"> <source media=\"(min-width: 992px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-3248853-12134e6.png?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=620%2C413\" type=\"image\/webp\"> <source media=\"(min-width: 992px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-3248853-12134e6.png?quality=90&amp;resize=620%2C413\" type=\"image\/png\"> <source media=\"(min-width: 768px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-3248853-12134e6.png?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=407%2C271\" type=\"image\/webp\"> <source media=\"(min-width: 768px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-3248853-12134e6.png?quality=90&amp;resize=407%2C271\" type=\"image\/png\"> <source media=\"(min-width: 590px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-3248853-12134e6.png?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=555%2C370\" type=\"image\/webp\"> <source media=\"(min-width: 590px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-3248853-12134e6.png?quality=90&amp;resize=555%2C370\" type=\"image\/png\"> <img class=\"wp-image-255233 align size-landscape_thumbnail image-handler__image image-handler__image--aspect no-wrap js-lazyload\" srcset=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" data-src=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-3248853-12134e6.png?quality=90&amp;resize=620%2C413\" width=\"620\" height=\"413\" alt=\"Sir John Conroy\" title=\"Sir John Conroy\"\/>\n<\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/picture>\n<\/div><div class=\"caption-hold\"><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span class=\"caption-copy\"><i class=\"icon-arrow icon-camera-circle\"\/> Sir John Conroy, comptroller of the Duchess of Kent\u2019s household. (Image by Getty Images)<\/span><\/figcaption><span class=\"im-image-caption\"\/><\/div>\n<p>And Conroy could see, as the duchess\u2019s chief advisor, that he might one day become the power behind the throne. He encouraged Victoire and the little Victoria to go back to live at Kensington Palace, and there devised something called the \u2018System\u2019, a set of strict rules under which the princess would live.<\/p>\n<h2>What was the Kensington System?<\/h2>\n<p><!-- image removed --><!-- image removed --><!-- image removed --><\/p>\n<p>It sounds rather sinister, and on some levels it was. At its most basic, the System (as\u00a0Conroy himself called it, with capital S) was for the young Victoria\u2019s personal safety. It\u00a0demanded she be kept in semi-seclusion at\u00a0Kensington Palace. Behind the garden walls, she\u2019d be isolated from both disease and assassination attempts. Secondly,\u00a0the fact that she was rarely seen at\u00a0court distanced her, in people\u2019s minds, from the unpopular regime of her uncles, Kings George and then <a href=\"https:\/\/www.historyextra.com\/period\/georgian\/william-iv-king-guide-life-rule-death-who\/\">William IV<\/a>. As\u00a0a\u00a0possible future queen, she\u2019d remain untainted by association with them. She would be a fresh\u00a0start \u2013 or, as Conroy put it,\u00a0\u201cthe Nation\u2019s\u00a0Hope\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>But thirdly \u2013 and sinisterly \u2013 the System also seems to have been about breaking Victoria\u2019s spirit, and getting her to submit. It contained an element of surveillance: she wasn\u2019t allowed to sleep alone, play with other girls or even walk downstairs without having someone holding her hand. And each day she had to write in her \u2018Behaviour Book\u2019 how well \u2013 or badly \u2013 she\u2019d behaved (see more rules below).<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>On the podcast | <a href=\"https:\/\/www.historyextra.com\/period\/victorian\/queen-victoria-behind-closed-doors\/\">Professor Jane Ridley reveal lesser-known aspects of Queen Victoria\u2019s life<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Accounts of Queen Victoria\u2019s childhood usually take at face value her adult recollections of this\u00a0period in her life, in which she complained of trauma and loneliness. But it\u2019s also worth bearing in mind that she did have a natural tendency to make a drama out of her own life. And perhaps there were some elements of the System that helped to make her reign a success.<\/p>\n<p>There is no doubt that Conroy was indeed a manipulative bully, but there is also something more to his poor reputation among historians than just Victoria\u2019s well-recorded dislike. The snobbish court establishment looked down on his lack of an aristocratic background. Born in Wales to Anglo-Irish parents \u2013 his father was a barrister \u2013 Conroy had reached his position of influence entirely by his own efforts, which contemporaries found troubling.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Read more | <a href=\"https:\/\/www.historyextra.com\/period\/victorian\/queen-victoria-looks-appearance-pretty-beautiful-how-tall-german-accent-weight-height\/\">\u2018Dumpy\u2019 dowager or vibrant beauty: what did Queen Victoria <em>really<\/em> look like, and how tall was she?<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Secondly, if the System Conroy had devised had three components, the first two were wildly successful. He did keep Victoria safe. And, through a carefully stage-managed series of public appearances in her teenage years, he\u00a0did manage to create an enormous groundswell of warmth for her when, eventually, she\u00a0became queen.<\/p>\n<section class=\"highlight \"> <div class=\"highlight__content editor-content\"> <h2>The Kensington System that governed Queen Victoria\u2019s childhood<\/h2>\n<ol>\n<li>Victoria was not allowed to spend time by herself and she always had to sleep in her mother\u2019s room.<\/li>\n<li>Victoria could not walk downstairs without holding the hand of an adult in case she fell. (It sounds melodramatic, but Victoria did actually confirm in later life that this was a rule she had to abide by.)<\/li>\n<li>Victoria was not allowed to meet any strangers or third parties without her governess being present.<\/li>\n<li>The young Victoria had to write in a \u2018Behaviour Book\u2019 how well she\u2019d behaved each day, so that her mother could assess her progress.\u00a0Sometimes it was good, sometimes \u201cVERY NAUGHTY\u201d.<\/li>\n<li>Victoria could only appear in public on carefully stage-managed \u2018publicity tours\u2019.\u00a0This was to distance her from the unpopular regime of her uncles, Kings George IV and William IV, and to present her as \u201cthe Nation\u2019s Hope\u201d.<\/li>\n<li>Victoria was not allowed to dance the scandalous and intimate new dance called the waltz, not even (as is often said) with other royal relations.\u00a0She would never waltz until married to Prince Albert.<\/li>\n<li>Victoria had to build up her strength by exercising with her Indian clubs [a pair of bowling-pin shaped wooden clubs] and a machine with pulleys and weights, and was mandated to have plenty of fresh air.\u00a0She would be a life-long devotee of open windows, to the extent that her courtiers would always be shivering.<\/li>\n<li>The young Victoria was not allowed to gorge on her food.\u00a0She was allowed to eat bread with milk and plain roast mutton, and was restricted from eating her favourite things: sweetmeats and fruit.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p> <\/p><\/div> <\/section> <h2>Young Victoria\u2019s publicity tours<\/h2>\n<p>One of the items on display in an exhibition at Kensington Palace is the small wooden travelling bed that Victoria used for another strand of Conroy\u2019s System: the country-wide \u2018publicity tours\u2019 that he organised for her. Taking her on closely choreographed visits to provincial towns and nobleman\u2019s houses around Britain gave her future subjects an intriguing glimpse of their future monarch. It was a strategy that paid off entirely. When, in the early hours of 20 June 1837, the 18-year-old Victoria was woken up at Kensington Palace with news that her uncle had died in the night, she was able to emerge \u2013 as Conroy had planned \u2013 as a fresh start for the monarchy.<\/p>\n<p><!-- image removed --><\/p>\n<div class=\"row\"> <div class=\"col-10 offset-1\"> <div class=\"embed\"> <div class=\"template-article__pullquote mt-md mb-md\"> <blockquote class=\"pullquote heading-4\"> <span class=\"pullquote__icon pullquote__icon--left icon-pullquote\" data-grunticon-embed=\"\"\/>The home-loving Victoria would become the perfect pin-up for a country tired of the debauchery and excesses of previous kings<span class=\"pullquote__icon pullquote__icon--right icon-pullquote\" data-grunticon-embed=\"\"\/> <\/blockquote> <\/div> <\/div> <\/div>\n<\/div> <p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.historyextra.com\/period\/victorian\/young-queen-victoria-struggle-gain-throne-family-tree\/\">Victoria\u2019s journey to the throne<\/a> was a struggle.\u00a0But once she was queen, she would not long remain at Kensington Palace. She removed herself as quickly as she could to the\u00a0relative freedom of Buckingham Palace instead. There\u2019s a well-known and compelling narrative that sees Victoria, on her accession day, cutting free of the System to the extent, even, of changing her name.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Read more | <a href=\"https:\/\/www.historyextra.com\/period\/victorian\/queen-victoria-great-palaces-homes-kensington-osborne-balmoral-castle\/\">Victoria\u2019s great palaces: 5 of the queen\u2019s grandest and most significant homes<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>When called on to sign her name, the new queen put just plain \u201cVictoria\u201d \u2013 not the \u201cAlexandrina Victoria\u201d of her christening. It\u2019s widely believed that she was called \u201cDrina\u201d in childhood, rather than Victoria, and that the change symbolised a break from the past. But her mother had some time earlier agreed that the \u201cAlexandrina\u201d should be dropped quietly, and her toys are marked with a \u201cV\u201d. The duchess had, in any case, also called her daughter by the pet name of \u201cVickelchen\u201d.<\/p>\n<h2>How did the Kensington System affect Victoria?<\/h2>\n<p>So the System was not entirely a black-and-white affair. Even the most unpleasant aspect of it, that of surveillance, perhaps had an unintended benefit. It toughened Victoria up. She would have to face a lifetime of being watched and judged. The Behaviour Books were just the start. As her mother explained to her: \u201cYou cannot escape\u2026 from the situation you are born in.\u201d Victoria might as well be given the chance to get used to living under watch and under pressure.<\/p>\n<p>This was far from normal for a 19th-century girl, who was expected by society to shrink away from attention. But even Victoria\u2019s Uncle Leopold, an enemy of Conroy\u2019s, likewise coached his niece about the element of performance that would be so central to her role as a constitutional monarch. \u201cHigh personages are a little like stage actors,\u201d he explained. \u201cThey must always make efforts to please their public.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"image-handler__container image-handler__container--full\" style=\"padding-bottom: calc(100% * (412 \/ 620));\"> <picture> <source media=\"(max-width: 320px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-104411417-0c19301.png?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=300%2C199, https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-104411417-0c19301.png?webp=true&amp;quality=45&amp;resize=600%2C399 2x\" type=\"image\/webp\"> <source media=\"(max-width: 320px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-104411417-0c19301.png?quality=90&amp;resize=300%2C199, https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-104411417-0c19301.png?quality=45&amp;resize=600%2C399 2x\" type=\"image\/png\"> <source media=\"(max-width: 375px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-104411417-0c19301.png?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=355%2C236\" type=\"image\/webp\"> <source media=\"(max-width: 375px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-104411417-0c19301.png?quality=90&amp;resize=355%2C236\" type=\"image\/png\"> <source media=\"(max-width: 425px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-104411417-0c19301.png?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=405%2C269\" type=\"image\/webp\"> <source media=\"(max-width: 425px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-104411417-0c19301.png?quality=90&amp;resize=405%2C269\" type=\"image\/png\"> <source media=\"(max-width: 589px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-104411417-0c19301.png?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=554%2C368\" type=\"image\/webp\"> <source media=\"(max-width: 589px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-104411417-0c19301.png?quality=90&amp;resize=554%2C368\" type=\"image\/png\"> <source media=\"(min-width: 992px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-104411417-0c19301.png?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=620%2C412\" type=\"image\/webp\"> <source media=\"(min-width: 992px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-104411417-0c19301.png?quality=90&amp;resize=620%2C412\" type=\"image\/png\"> <source media=\"(min-width: 768px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-104411417-0c19301.png?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=408%2C271\" type=\"image\/webp\"> <source media=\"(min-width: 768px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-104411417-0c19301.png?quality=90&amp;resize=408%2C271\" type=\"image\/png\"> <source media=\"(min-width: 590px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-104411417-0c19301.png?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=556%2C369\" type=\"image\/webp\"> <source media=\"(min-width: 590px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-104411417-0c19301.png?quality=90&amp;resize=556%2C369\" type=\"image\/png\"> <img class=\"wp-image-255223 align size-landscape_thumbnail image-handler__image image-handler__image--full no-wrap js-lazyload\" srcset=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" data-src=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/7\/2020\/05\/GettyImages-104411417-0c19301.png?quality=90&amp;resize=620%2C412\" width=\"620\" height=\"413\" alt=\"Queen Victoria as a young woman\" title=\"Queen Victoria as a young woman\"\/>\n<\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/picture>\n<\/div><div class=\"caption-hold\"><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span class=\"caption-copy\"><i class=\"icon-arrow icon-camera-circle\"\/> Queen Victoria as a young woman, c1835. (Image by Getty Images)<\/span><\/figcaption><span class=\"im-image-caption\"\/><\/div>\n<p>Harsh judgement has sometimes been heaped upon the Duchess of Kent for not standing up to Conroy when he bullied her. But while Victoire lacked moral fibre, that did not make her a bad person, and this too is something that Victoria herself in later life came to appreciate. As Victoire explained, she\u2019d simply done her best for her daughter. \u201cMy greatest of fears was that I loved her too much,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>And what Victoire did bequeath to her daughter was a huge capacity for love. Most royals of the early 19th century could not afford to look for love in their marriages, which were pragmatic affairs undertaken for blood or politics. Yet Victoire, creature of an age in which romantic novels were beginning to provide a new template for living, had sought and found a soulmate in her husband. She brought up her daughter to desire the same thing \u2013 and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.historyextra.com\/period\/victorian\/queen-victoria-albert-relationship-marriage-happy-rivalry-love-story\/\">Queen Victoria\u2019s marriage to Prince Albert<\/a> was a love match.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Read more | <a href=\"https:\/\/www.historyextra.com\/period\/victorian\/love-before-albert-queen-victorias-suitors\/\">Love before Albert: Queen Victoria\u2019s suitors<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><!-- image removed --><\/p>\n<p>Victoria came in later life to realise the love her mother had felt for her \u2013 despite the System \u2013 and she also spent her childhood watching her mother defer so much to the advice of a man. The result of this was that she herself, in due course, would cling all the more closely to her own family.<\/p>\n<p>And in doing so, Queen Victoria would model for the media and the nation a domestic life that was more than acceptable to the age in which she lived.<\/p>\n<h3>The dutiful queen<\/h3>\n<p>The industrial revolution had allowed a man, working in industry or business, to earn enough money to keep his wife at home, untroubled by the outside world. In her own family life, Victoria would become a kind of super-Victorian: submissive to her husband, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.historyextra.com\/period\/victorian\/prince-albert-facts-queen-victoria-husband-children-death-cousins-wedding-marriage-itv\/\">Prince Albert<\/a>, apparently devoted to her <a href=\"https:\/\/www.historyextra.com\/period\/victorian\/queen-victorias-children\/\">children<\/a> \u2013 the perfect pin-up for a populace tired of the debauchery, the mistresses and the general excesses of previous kings.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Read more | <a href=\"https:\/\/www.historyextra.com\/period\/victorian\/queen-victoria-prince-albert-children-who-names-sons-daughters-facts-motherhood-parents\/\">Who were Queen Victoria\u2019s children? Everything you need to know about her sons and daughters<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>But while the young Victoria was loved to the extent of being spoilt, there were still terrible gaps in her more formal education.<\/p>\n<p>The System had given her nothing more than the standard education for a genteel young lady being prepared for marriage. The\u00a0majority of her time was spent on music, drawing (at which she excelled), dancing, religion, French and German. Her tutors reported her as \u201cindifferent\u201d at spelling, but \u201cgood\u201d at most other subjects. \u201cThe rest of her education,\u201d one of Victoria\u2019s prime ministers later noted, \u201cshe owes to her own natural shrewdness and quickness.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"row\"> <div class=\"col-10 offset-1\"> <div class=\"embed\"> <div class=\"template-article__pullquote mt-md mb-md\"> <blockquote class=\"pullquote heading-4\"> <span class=\"pullquote__icon pullquote__icon--left icon-pullquote\" data-grunticon-embed=\"\"\/>While the young Victoria was loved to the extent of being spoilt, there were still terrible gaps in her more formal education<span class=\"pullquote__icon pullquote__icon--right icon-pullquote\" data-grunticon-embed=\"\"\/> <\/blockquote> <\/div> <\/div> <\/div>\n<\/div> <p>But there was also a curious advantage to having a queen who relied on her \u201cnatural shrewdness\u201d. It made her an instinctive, populist politician in a way that her classically educated male court and cabinet could never really appreciate. When she did ultimately come to write a book, for example, it was far from a learned tome. She published an account of holidays she\u2019d taken in Scotland, which became a huge success and a\u00a0runaway bestseller. Its rather banal content appealed directly to the people among her subjects who mattered, the people who held the balance of political power in the 19th century: the middle class.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Read more | <a href=\"https:\/\/www.historyextra.com\/period\/victorian\/friends-family-rivals-queen-victoria-european-empires-politics-foreign-policy\/\">Friends, family and rivals: Queen Victoria and the European empires<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>While other monarchies across Europe were being threatened by revolution, the British monarchy survived the 19th century unscathed. This was not least because the middle classes thought that their undereducated, dutiful, home-loving queen simply wasn\u2019t worth overthrowing.<\/p>\n<p>It was not the result that Conroy\u2019s strange \u2018System\u2019 was intended to achieve. Victoria would look back on her Kensington childhood with horror and regret. But far from being the breaking of her, you could argue that Victoria\u2019s unusual childhood was in fact\u00a0the making of her reign.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>This article was first published in the<\/em><em> June 2019 edition of <a href=\"\/bbc-history-magazine\/\">BBC History Magazine<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p> <\/body><\/html>\n<hr class=\"no-tts wp-block-separator\"\/>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p> What was Queen Victoria like as a child? And did she have a normal childhood? 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