{"id":6615,"date":"2021-11-11T13:45:23","date_gmt":"2021-11-11T12:45:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.historyextra.com\/?p=24357"},"modified":"2021-11-11T14:43:08","modified_gmt":"2021-11-11T13:43:08","slug":"the-secret-life-of-mrs-beeton-10-pieces-of-life-advice-from-her-famous-book-of-household-management","status":"publish","type":"rss_feed","link":"https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/bbchistory\/rss_feed\/the-secret-life-of-mrs-beeton-10-pieces-of-life-advice-from-her-famous-book-of-household-management\/","title":{"rendered":"The secret life of Mrs Beeton: 10 pieces of life advice from her famous Book of Household Management"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"rssexcerpt\"><\/p><p class=\"rssauthor\">By Elinor Evans\n                \t\t<\/p><p class=\"rssbyline\">Published: Thursday, 11 November 2021 at 12:00 am<\/p><hr class=\"no-tts wp-block-separator\"\/><?xml version=\"1.0\" encoding=\"UTF-8\" standalone=\"yes\"?>\n<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><body><h3>Who was Mrs Beeton?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Name:\u00a0<\/strong>Isabella Mary Beeton<\/p>\n<p><strong>Born:\u00a0<\/strong>12 March 1836 in London<\/p>\n<p><strong>Married: <\/strong>Samuel Beeton, a wealthy publisher<\/p>\n<p><strong>Died:\u00a0<\/strong>6 February 1865 (from an infection following the birth of her fourth child)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Famous for:<\/strong>\u00a0Her writing on cookery and house-keeping, specifically her now-famous\u00a0<em>Beeton\u2019s Book Of Household Management\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<hr\/><h3>Mrs Beeton\u2019s guide to a good life: 10 pieces of advice from Mrs Beeton\u2019s book<\/h3>\n<div class=\"&quot;listicle&quot;\"> <span class=\"&quot;listicle__count&quot;\">1<\/span> <h3 class=\"&quot;listicle__title\" heading-3=\"\">Wake up early<\/h3>\n<\/div> <p><em><strong><span class=\"&quot;listicle__count&quot;\">\u00a0<\/span>\u201cEarly rising is one of the most essential qualities\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Isabella and her husband Sam were indeed early risers, to the point of eccentricity. They both seem to have got up at about 6am before immediately catching the early train from Pinner into London, where Sam, a publisher, had his office. The other commuters disliked having a lady present since it meant they could neither swear nor smoke. Sam often missed the last \u2028train back and, rumour has it, once walked the whole way home, about 13 miles. Isabella would regularly leave his supper for him on the stove, having long since gone to bed.<br\/><\/p><div class=\"&quot;listicle&quot;\"> <span class=\"&quot;listicle__count&quot;\">2<\/span> <h3 class=\"&quot;listicle__title\" heading-3=\"\">Have a cold bath<\/h3>\n<\/div>\n\n<p><em><strong>\u201cCold or tepid baths should be employed every morning\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>When the Beetons moved into their semi-detached house on a brand new housing estate in Pinner in 1856, there was no bath. Baths with running water were new-fangled, and even considered dangerous. Most people made do with a washstand in their bedroom. Isabella, though, was adamant that she wanted a bath and so an extra cistern had to be installed on the first floor to accommodate her modern tastes. Descendants of Mrs Beeton were brought up on the story that the reason two of her children died is that she subjected them to too many cold dips.<br\/><\/p><div class=\"&quot;listicle&quot;\"> <span class=\"&quot;listicle__count&quot;\">3<\/span> <h3 class=\"&quot;listicle__title\" heading-3=\"\">Choose your friends wisely<\/h3>\n<\/div>\n\n<p><em><strong>\u201cFriendships should not be hastily formed, nor the heart given at once to every newcomer\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Mrs Beeton gives her readers strict guidelines for sociability. The moment a young matron moves into a new neighbourhood, she should make a courtesy call on her neighbours. In return, she should expect to be \u201cat home\u201d several times a week. No-one should bring their children or their dog with them, and gossiping about your husband\u2019s shortcomings is strictly forbidden. In fact, Isabella was not very sociable and there\u2019s no evidence that she ever made a morning call. Perhaps because she was the eldest girl in a tribe of 21 children, she spent most of the time socialising within her vast clan. Her best friends were her sisters Bessie and Esther, who remained fiercely loyal even after her marriage. They blamed her husband Sam for her early death at 28, declaring that he\u2019d made her over-work on the <em>Book of Household Management<\/em>.<br\/><\/p><div class=\"&quot;listicle&quot;\"> <span class=\"&quot;listicle__count&quot;\">4<\/span> <h3 class=\"&quot;listicle__title\" heading-3=\"\">Give to charity<\/h3>\n<\/div>\n\n<p><em><strong>\u201cCharity and Benevolence are duties which a mistress owes to herself as well as to her fellow-creature\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Isabella herself did indeed have a social conscience. In the very hard winter of 1858 she cooked up each week nine gallons of \u201cUseful Soup for Benevolent Purposes\u201d which she distributed at her back door to local needy families. The soup\u2019s ingredients included a few bones, an ox cheek, salt and an ounce of black pepper. Whether the poor of Pinner ever came back for second helpings is not recorded.<\/p>\n<section class=\"&quot;highlight\"><div class=\"&quot;highlight__content\" editor-content=\"\"> <h4>Myth-busting Mrs Beeton<\/h4>\n<p>Most of us think of Mrs (Isabella) Beeton as a middle-aged matron with decades of kitchen experience. So it may be a surprise to learn that she was just 21 when she started writing her now-famous <em>Beeton\u2019s Book of Household Management<\/em> in 1859, and had only been \u2018keeping house\u2019 for 12 months. Although she gave the impression she was a well-to-do lady presiding over an affluent and well-run home, the truth was she was a girl from a lower-middle class background battling everything from poverty to disease. And far from being middle-aged, she died at the age of just 28.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p> <\/p><\/div> <\/section><br\/><div class=\"&quot;listicle&quot;\"> <span class=\"&quot;listicle__count&quot;\">5<\/span> <h3 class=\"&quot;listicle__title\" heading-3=\"\">Keep a record of your finances<\/h3>\n<\/div>\n\n<p><em><strong>\u201cA housekeeping book should invariably be kept, and kept punctually and precisely\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Sam Beeton was a reckless businessman, borrowing too much and over-spending wildly. In the last weeks of Isabella\u2019s life in 1865 it became clear he faced bankruptcy. By contrast, Isabella seems to have been a thrifty housekeeper. In a diary from 1860, she wrote down everything that she and Sam spent on food before crossing through each item, as though she was keeping track of expenditure. If she had not died prematurely she might have wrested Sam\u2019s company back into profit. As it was he went bankrupt in 1866 and had to sell the highly profitable <em>Book of Household Management<\/em> to another company which reaped its vast profits over the next 150 years.<br\/><\/p><div class=\"&quot;listicle&quot;\"> <span class=\"&quot;listicle__count&quot;\">6<\/span> <h3 class=\"&quot;listicle__title\" heading-3=\"\">Eat well and try new recipes<\/h3>\n<\/div>\n\n<p><em><strong>\u201cExcellence in the art of cookery, as in all other things, is only attainable by practice and experience\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Isabella had been cooking for just a year when she first started compiling the 2,000 recipes that appear in the <em>Book of Household Management<\/em>. With the exception of the Soup for Benevolent Purposes (see above) she copied all her recipes from earlier cookery books, some of them dating back to the 17th century. She did, however, improve their lay-out, by listing all the ingredients at the start and giving exact cooking times. All the same, if she had been alive today she might have been prosecuted for plagiarism.<\/p>\n<div class=\"&quot;row&quot;\"> <div class=\"&quot;col-10\" offset-1=\"\"> <div class=\"&quot;embed&quot;\"> <div class=\"&quot;template-article__pullquote\" mt-md=\"\" mb-md=\"\"> <blockquote class=\"&quot;pullquote\" heading-4=\"\"> <span class=\"&quot;pullquote__icon\" pullquote__icon--left=\"\" icon-pullquote=\"\" data-grunticon-embed=\"\"\/>If Mrs Beeton had been alive today she might have been prosecuted for plagiarism.<span class=\"&quot;pullquote__icon\" pullquote__icon--right=\"\" icon-pullquote=\"\" data-grunticon-embed=\"\"\/> <\/blockquote> <\/div> <\/div> <\/div>\n<\/div> <section class=\"&quot;highlight\"><div class=\"&quot;highlight__content\" editor-content=\"\"> <h4>Real historical recipes<\/h4>\n<h6>Fancy cooking up a storm? Try your hand at one of these real recipes from history\u2026<\/h6>\n<ul><li><strong><a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.historyextra.com\/period\/victorian\/historical-recipe-brown-windsor-soup\/&quot;\">Brown Windsor soup \u2013 a meaty Victorian dish<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.historyextra.com\/period\/20th-century\/historical-recipe-coronation-chicken\/&quot;\"><strong>A royal coronation chicken<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.historyextra.com\/period\/georgian\/historical-recipe-vanilla-ice-cream\/&quot;\"><strong>Positively presidential vanilla ice cream\u00a0<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul><p> <\/p><\/div> <\/section><br\/><div class=\"&quot;listicle&quot;\"> <span class=\"&quot;listicle__count&quot;\">7<\/span> <h3 class=\"&quot;listicle__title\" heading-3=\"\">Organise your servants<\/h3>\n<\/div>\n\n<p><em><strong>\u201cThe number of male domestics in a family varies according to the wealth and position of the master\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Mrs Beeton gives precise instructions to the mistress of the house about how to deal with a whole fleet of servants from the butler and the cook down to the scullery maid and the stable lad. In fact Isabella never employed more than a single maid-of-all-work and a nursemaid. Footmen and cooks were only for the wealthy, the kind of people who were unlikely to need to thumb through her book for tips on how to deal with their staff. Beeton included this material about what went on in the best circles as aspirational \u201cdomestic porn\u201d over which her more humble readers could sigh and dream.<br\/><\/p><div class=\"&quot;listicle&quot;\"> <span class=\"&quot;listicle__count&quot;\">8<\/span> <h3 class=\"&quot;listicle__title\" heading-3=\"\">Enjoy your children<\/h3>\n<\/div>\n\n<p><em><strong>\u201cThe nursery is of great importance in every family\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Isabella Beeton\u2019s own efforts to establish her family were tinged with tragedy. Although she returned from her 1856 honeymoon pregnant, her baby boy died at just three months old. The next year was filled with miscarriages, before she gave birth again in 1859. Sadly this child died aged three. It seems likely that Sam, who admitted to sleeping with a prostitute before he married, had passed on syphilis. It was only once five years had passed from her infection that Isabella was able to give birth to healthy children. Another boy followed in 1863 and lived until his 80s. In February 1865 Isabella was to give birth for the last time. The boy was healthy, but within hours Isabella was sick and shivery. She had contracted puerperal fever from the doctor who had delivered her baby (he had not taken the proper precaution of washing his hands in chloride of lime) and died an agonising death just a week later.<br\/><\/p><div class=\"&quot;listicle&quot;\"> <span class=\"&quot;listicle__count&quot;\">9<\/span> <h3 class=\"&quot;listicle__title\" heading-3=\"\">Care for your partner<\/h3>\n<\/div>\n\n<p><em><strong>\u201cAll women are likely at some point to be sick nurses and should prepare themselves as much as possible\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Sam Beeton was wracked with ill-health throughout his short life, dying 12 years after Isabella at the age of just 46. When Sam dropped hints about his illness to friends, it was clear that he was referring to venereal disease picked up from a prostitute. After Isabella died in 1865 he started to display all the symptoms of end-stage syphilis, which include mania, recklessness and sexually inappropriate-behaviour. He published pornography, as well as putting out publications offensive to the royal family. He also embarked on an orgy of unwinnable court cases which drained what little resources still remained. It is perhaps lucky that Mrs Beeton never got to see him in such a pitiful state nor found her nursing skills put to test.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dr Kathryn Hughes is author of <em>The Short Life and Long Times of Mrs Beeton<\/em>\u00a0(4th Estate, 2006)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.historyextra.com\/magazine-issue\/july-2006\/&quot;\"><em>This article was first published in the July 2006 issue of BBC History Magazine<\/em><\/a><\/strong><\/p><\/body><\/html>\n<hr class=\"no-tts wp-block-separator\"\/>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Elinor Evans Published: Thursday, 11 November 2021 at 12:00 am Who was Mrs Beeton? 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