{"id":50182,"date":"2024-12-04T13:29:23","date_gmt":"2024-12-04T12:29:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/2ae56955-2ba5-4b07-8a17-b2453c197b61"},"modified":"2024-12-04T15:09:21","modified_gmt":"2024-12-04T14:09:21","slug":"these-seven-composers-endured-miserable-love-lives-but-forged-sublime-music-from-them","status":"publish","type":"rss_feed","link":"https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/bbcmusicmagazine\/rss_feed\/these-seven-composers-endured-miserable-love-lives-but-forged-sublime-music-from-them\/","title":{"rendered":"These seven composers endured miserable love lives &#8211; but forged sublime music from them"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"rssexcerpt\"><\/p><p class=\"rssauthor\">By <\/p><p class=\"rssbyline\">Published: Wednesday, 04 December 2024 at 12:29 PM<\/p><hr class=\"no-tts wp-block-separator\"\/><?xml version=\"1.0\" encoding=\"UTF-8\" standalone=\"yes\"?>\n<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html> <head\/> <body> <p><strong>Scan the musical history books and composer biographies, and you will find plenty of composers who enjoyed long, happy and devoted relationships with their other halves. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/edvard-grieg\">Grieg<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/benjamin-britten\">Britten<\/a> or, heading further back, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/thomas-tallis\">Tallis<\/a>: these are some of the composers who revelled in happy, secure love lives. <\/strong><\/p> <p><strong>Then, there are those whose affairs of the heart were ardent and turbulent in equal measure, often matching their own music \u2013 the likes of arch-<a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/features\/composers\/best-romantic-composers\">Romantic composers<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/frederic-chopin\">Chopin<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/robert-schumann\/\">Sc<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/robert-schumann\">h<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/robert-schumann\/\">umann<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/richard-wagner\">Wagner<\/a> spring to mind. <\/strong><\/p> <p>Others simply didn&#8217;t care about affairs of the heart. And then there&#8217;s the fourth group: those composers for whom, for one reason or another, love brought more than its fair share of pain. Some were cruelly rejected by the objects of their fondest desires, others found themselves lumbered with spouses they could scarcely abide, and others were driven by jealousy to the brink of despair\u2026 or worse.<\/p> <p> <script src=\"https:\/\/cdn.jwplayer.com\/players\/xjL98ot4-lqFafnwo.js\"\/><\/p> <p>So, wiping back a tear and consigning the farewell letter to the bin, we present six composers who ensured wretched love lives.<\/p> <div class=\"wp-block-group highlight-box is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\"> <div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\"> <ul class=\"wp-block-list\"> <li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/15-penniless-composers\">15 penniless composers<\/a><\/strong><\/li> <li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/features\/works\/pains-unrequited-love-classical-music\">How the pains of love have found their way into these heart-wrenching pieces of classical music<\/a><\/strong><\/li> <\/ul> <\/div> <\/div> <h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Composers with terrible love lives<\/h2> <h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-joseph-haydn-seeking-solace-in-composing-a-lot\">Joseph Haydn: seeking solace in composing (a lot)<\/h3> <p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/joseph-haydn-2\">Joseph Haydn<\/a><\/strong> (1732-1809) was married for 30 years, but not to the person whom he\u2019d have preferred. As a young man, the Austrian composer fell madly in love with Therese Keller, the daughter of a Viennese wig-maker, but his would-be parents-in-law had other plans \u2013 Therese was sent to a nunnery, leaving Joseph to marry her older sister, Maria Anna, instead.<\/p> <figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube\"> <div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\"> <iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"J. Haydn - Hob I:44 - Symphony No. 44 in E minor &quot;Trauer&quot; (Hogwood)\" width=\"800\" height=\"600\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/UegqnUU9I18?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen=\"\"\/> <\/div> <\/figure> <p>Duly wed in 1860, the two were at loggerheads from almost day one. The marriage was childless, both had affairs \u2013 she with the painter Ludwig Guttenbrunn, he with the soprano Luigia Polzelli \u2013 and gossip about their feuding became standard fare. Several years after Haydn and Maria Anna had died, the Swedish composer Berwald reported that \u2018They say in Vienna that Haydn\u2019s rather unhappy and childless marriage is the reason why he composed so much.\u2019<\/p> <ul class=\"wp-block-list\"> <li><strong><a class=\"standard-card-new__article-title\" href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/features\/articles\/five-essential-works-haydn\/\">Five essential works <\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/features\/articles\/five-essential-works-haydn\">by Haydn<\/a><\/strong><\/li> <\/ul> <h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-franz-schubert-love-s-young-dream-foiled-by-poverty\">Franz Schubert: love's young dream, foiled by poverty<\/h3> <p>Like Haydn, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/franz-schubert\"><strong>Franz Schubert<\/strong><\/a> (1797-1828) also fell in love with a Therese, but in the then-teenage composer\u2019s case, his hopes of wedlock were shattered not by the will of her parents, but by his own penury. Yes, a law at the time prohibited marriage if the man could not prove his financial wherewithal to support a family.<\/p> <p>Later in his short life, Schubert became smitten with one of his pupils, Countess Caroline Esterh\u00e1zy, but she, it would seem, had little interest in her skint, short, puffy-faced admirer, despite his obvious talents. He, then, had to turn elsewhere for pleasure. Whether or not the syphilis that brought about his death at just 31 was the result of regular visits to prostitutes is not known.<\/p> <p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/QiOGEDRbJjM\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\"\/><\/p> <h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky: a love that dared not speak its name<\/h3> <p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/features\/composers\/tchaikovsky\">Tchaikovsky<\/a><\/strong>\u2019s love life was deeply complicated by his homosexuality, which he struggled to reconcile within the strict conformism of 19th-century Russian society.<\/p> <p>In 1877, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/articles\/tchaikovsky-wife\"><strong>Tchaikovsky married<\/strong> <strong>Antonina Milyukova<\/strong><\/a>, one of his students, in an ill-fated attempt to conform to societal norms. The marriage quickly collapsed, driving the composer to a nervous breakdown. Once again, thoughj, from great pain came great art: Tchaikobsky's final completed symphony, Symphony No. 6 (known as the '<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/features\/works\/tchaikovsky-pathetique-symphony\">Path\u00e9tique<\/a><\/strong>') is often seen as a deeply personal expression of his inner turmoil and unfulfilled desires.<\/p> <h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-alexander-zemlinsky-love-well-unrequited\">Alexander Zemlinsky: love, well, unrequited<\/h3> <p>In 1900, Alexander Zemlinsky (1871-1942, pictured top) became besotted with his piano student, the mesmerisingly beautiful Alma Schindler (later known as <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/features\/composers\/who-was-alma-mahler\">Alma Mahler<\/a><\/strong> \u2013\u00a0a hint of what's to come). She, in return, described him as a \u2018chinless, toothless, unwashed gnome\u2019. Nonetheless, she also found him strangely fascinating and a relationship of sorts developed between them, though by all accounts it remained unconsummated.<\/p> <p>Hovering in the background, meanwhile, was one <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/features\/composers\/gustav-mahler\">Gustav Mahler<\/a><\/strong>, who eventually made his move. Zemlinsky was devastated when Mahler and Alma married in 1902, and evidently had still not got over it by 1923, when he wrote his <em>Lyric Symphony<\/em>, a work telling about the woes of unrequited love.<\/p> <figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-4-3 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"> <div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\"> <iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Zemlinsky: Lyrische Symphonie, Op. 18 - 1. Langsam - mit ernst-leidenschaftlichem Ausdruck &quot;Ich...\" width=\"800\" height=\"600\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/COuCiDT_PCY?list=OLAK5uy_mrTTY9y-KUQuO8EZLStFu9sn7jWALvubc\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen=\"\"\/> <\/div> <\/figure> <h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-three-more-composers-who-endured-painful-love-lives\">Three more composers who endured painful love lives<\/h2> <h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-leos-janacek-broken-heart-musical-purple-patch\">Leos Jan\u00e1\u010dek: broken heart = musical purple patch<\/h3> <p>If unrequited love can be painful, it can also be productive. When <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/features\/composers\/leos-janacek\">Leos Jan\u00e1\u010dek<\/a><\/strong> (1854-1928) fell for Kamila St\u00f6sslov\u00e1, it inspired some of his greatest music: his String Quartet No. 2 ('Intimate Letters') and his three operas <em>Katya Kabanova<\/em>, <em>The Cunning Little Vixen<\/em> and <em>The Makropoulos Case<\/em>.<\/p> <p>Love also turned him into a fervent correspondent: the married composer wrote over 700 letters to St\u00f6sslov\u00e1, who was also married, 37 years his junior and had no great interest in art or in reciprocating his feelings. Jan\u00e1\u010dek was undeterred. \u2018Oh Kamila, it is hard to calm myself,\u2019 he wrote, \u2018but the fire that you\u2019ve set alight in me is necessary. Let it burn, let it flame.\u2019<\/p> <ul class=\"wp-block-list\"> <li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/features\/works\/janaceks-darkest-works\">Five of Leo\u0161 Jan\u00e1\u010dek's most sinister works<\/a><\/strong><\/li> <\/ul> <p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/WICGA3VLG7Y\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\"\/><\/p> <h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-ethel-smyth-a-late-blooming-passion\">Ethel Smyth: a late-blooming passion<\/h3> <p>Virginia Woolf remembered clearly the first time she saw Ethel Smyth (1858-1944): \u2018Bustling down the gangway at the Wigmore Hall, in tweeds and spats, a little cock\u2019s feather in your felt, and a general look of angry energy, so that I said, \u201cThat\u2019s <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/who-was-ethel-smyth\">Ethel Smyth<\/a><\/strong>!\u201d\u2019<\/p> <p>That was in 1919 but they didn\u2019t properly meet until 1930. The British composer, by then in her 70s, fell in love with the novelist. \u2018I don\u2019t think I have ever cared for anyone more profoundly and it is I think because of her genius,\u2019 she wrote in her diary. Woolf didn\u2019t feel the same, but the pair became and remained friends, a relationship that was by turns fiery, inspiring and frustrating.<\/p> <ul class=\"wp-block-list\"> <li><strong><a class=\"standard-card-new__article-title\" href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/features\/works\/six-best-works-ethel-smyth\/\">Six of the best: works by Ethel Smyth<\/a><\/strong><\/li> <\/ul> <h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-speaking-of-composers-and-their-painful-love-lives-how-can-we-forget\">Speaking of composers and their painful love lives, how can we forget...<\/h2> <h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-carlo-gesualdo-passion-murder-guilt-and-some-of-the-renaissance-s-most-sublime-music\">Carlo Gesualdo: passion, murder, guilt... and some of the Renaissance's most sublime music<\/h3> <p>Love turned truly disastrous in the case of the Italian composer <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/carlo-gesualdo\/\">Don Carlo Gesualdo<\/a><\/strong>, Prince of Venosa (1566-1613). When he was 24, he returned to his castle to discover his wife, Maria d\u2019Avalos, in bed with her lover. He brutally stabbed, slashed and shot the pair, ensuring they were both dead.<\/p> <p>Despite undoubtedly being responsible for double murder, Gesualdo\u2019s noble status protected him from prosecution. He was, however, plagued by guilt for the rest of his life. Rumours of witchcraft and sadomasochism surrounded him, but he went on to compose music that was extraordinary in its harmonic daring. Most distinctively, his six books of beautiful, ethereal and sometimes otherworldly <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/features\/musical-terms\/what-is-a-madrigal\">madrigals<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p> <figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube\"> <div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\"> <iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Gesualdo: Belt\u00e0, poi che t'assenti\" width=\"800\" height=\"600\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/qS2Nbq_b0p4?list=PLy30lkBpHSxdLFQogvh8TdYAXnh1iexga\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen=\"\"\/> <\/div> <\/figure> <p>Truly, a terrible love life. But one that, as with the other composers we've covered, resulted in great art.<\/p> <div class=\"wp-block-group highlight-box is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\"> <div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\"> <ul class=\"wp-block-list\"> <li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/features\/articles\/six-best-love-songs-without-words\/\">Six of the best love songs... without words<\/a><\/strong><\/li> <li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/features\/articles\/love-story-behind-berliozs-symphonie-fantastique\/\">The love story behind Berlioz's Symphonie fantastique<\/a><\/strong><\/li> <li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/features\/articles\/did-jenny-lind-have-an-affair-with-felix-mendelssohn\/\">Did Jenny Lind have an affair with Felix Mendelssohn?<\/a><\/strong><\/li> <\/ul> <\/div> <\/div> <\/body><\/html>\n<hr class=\"no-tts wp-block-separator\"\/>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Published: Wednesday, 04 December 2024 at 12:29 PM Scan the musical history books and composer biographies, and you will find plenty of composers who enjoyed long, happy and devoted relationships with their other halves. 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