{"id":7211,"date":"2021-11-04T11:39:28","date_gmt":"2021-11-04T10:39:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/?p=5638"},"modified":"2021-11-04T14:34:08","modified_gmt":"2021-11-04T13:34:08","slug":"6-composers-with-wretched-love-lives","status":"publish","type":"rss_feed","link":"https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/bbcmusicmagazine\/rss_feed\/6-composers-with-wretched-love-lives\/","title":{"rendered":"6 composers with wretched love lives"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"rssexcerpt\"><\/p><p class=\"rssauthor\">By Jeremy Pound\n                \t\t<\/p><p class=\"rssbyline\">Published: Thursday, 04 November 2021 at 12:00 am<\/p><hr class=\"no-tts wp-block-separator\"\/><?xml version=\"1.0\" encoding=\"UTF-8\" standalone=\"yes\"?>\n<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><body><p><strong>Take a look through the musical history books and you will find plenty who enjoyed long, happy and devoted relationships with their other halves \u2013 such <a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/edvard-grieg\/&quot;\">Grieg<\/a>, <a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/benjamin-britten\/&quot;\">Britten<\/a> or, heading further back, <a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/thomas-tallis\/&quot;\">Tallis<\/a>, for instance. Then, there are those whose affairs of the heart were ardent and turbulent in equal measure, often matching their own music \u2013 the likes of arch-<a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/fifteen-best-romantic-composers\/&quot;\">Romantic composers<\/a> <a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/frederic-chopin\/&quot;\">Chopin<\/a>, <a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/robert-schumann\/&quot;\">Schumann<\/a> and <a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/richard-wagner\/&quot;\">Wagner<\/a> spring to mind, here.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There were some who simply didn\u2019t care. And then, alas, there were the composers for whom, for one reason or another, love brought more than its fair share of pain. Some were cruelly rejected by the objects of their fondest desires, others found themselves lumbered with spouses they could scarcely abide, and others were driven by jealousy to the brink of despair\u2026 or worse.<\/p>\n<p>We present six composers who had wretched love lives<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Haydn<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong><a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/joseph-haydn-2\/&quot;\">Joseph Haydn<\/a><\/strong> (1732-1809) was married for 30 years, but not to whom he\u2019d have liked. As a young man, the Austrian composer fell madly in love with Therese Keller, the daughter of a Viennese wig-maker, but his would-be parents-in-law had other plans \u2013\u00a0Therese was sent to a nunnery, leaving Joseph to marry her older sister, Maria Anna, instead. Duly wed in 1860, the two were at loggerheads from almost day one. The marriage was childless, both had affairs \u2013\u00a0she with the painter Ludwig Guttenbrunn, he with the soprano Luigia Polzelli \u2013 and gossip about their feuding became standard fare. Several years after Haydn and Maria Anna had died, the Swedish composer Berwald reported that \u2018They say in Vienna that Haydn\u2019s rather unhappy and childless marriage is the reason why he composed so much.\u2019<\/p>\n<ul><li><strong><a class=\"&quot;standard-card-new__article-title&quot;\" href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/features\/articles\/five-essential-works-haydn\/&quot;\">Five essential works by Haydn<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul><h2><strong>Schubert<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Like Haydn, <a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/franz-schubert\/&quot;\"><strong>Franz Schubert<\/strong><\/a> (1797-1828) also fell in love with a Therese, but in the then-teenage composer\u2019s case, his hopes of wedlock were shattered not by the will of her parents, but by his own penury \u2013\u00a0a law at the time prohibited marriage if the man could not prove his financial wherewithal to support a family. Later in his short life, Schubert became smitten with one of his pupils, Countess Caroline Esterh\u00e1zy, but she, it would seem, had little interest in her skint, short, puffy-faced admirer, despite his obvious talents. He, then, had to turn elsewhere for pleasure. Whether or not the syphilis that brought about his death at just 31 was the result of regular visits to prostitutes is not known.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"&quot;lazy&quot;\" src=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/QiOGEDRbJjM&quot;\" width=\"&quot;560&quot;\" height=\"&quot;315&quot;\" frameborder=\"&quot;0&quot;\" allowfullscreen=\"&quot;allowfullscreen&quot;\"\/><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Zemlinsky<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>In 1900, Alexander Zemlinsky (1871-1942) became besotted with his piano student, the mesmerisingly beautiful Alma Schindler. She, in return, described him as a \u2018chinless, toothless, unwashed gnome\u2019. Nonetheless, she also found him strangely fascinating and a relationship of sorts developed between them, though by all accounts it remained unconsummated. Hovering in the background, meanwhile, was one Gustav Mahler, who eventually made his move. Zemlinsky was devastated when Mahler and Alma married in 1902, and evidently had still not got over it by 1923, when he wrote his <em>Lyric Symphony<\/em>, a work telling about the woes of unrequited love.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Jan\u00e1cek<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>If unrequited love can be painful (see above), it can also be productive. When <strong><a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/franz-schubert\/&quot;\">Leos Jan\u00e1cek<\/a><\/strong> (1854-1928) fell for Kamila Stosslova, it inspired some of his greatest music: his String Quartet No. 2 (\u2018Intimate Letters\u2019) and his three operas <em>Katya Kabanova<\/em>, <em>The Cunning Little Vixen<\/em> and <em>The Makropoulos Case<\/em>. Love also turned him into a fervent correspondent: the married composer wrote over 700 letters to Stosslova, who was also married, 37 years his junior and had no great interest in art or in reciprocating his feelings. Jan\u00e1cek was undeterred. \u2018Oh Kamila, it is hard to calm myself,\u2019 he wrote, \u2018but the fire that you\u2019ve set alight in me is necessary. Let it burn, let it flame.\u2019<\/p>\n<ul><li><strong><a class=\"&quot;standard-card-new__article-title&quot;\" href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/features\/articles\/five-leos-janaceks-most-sinister-works\/&quot;\">Five of Leo\u0161 Jan\u00e1\u010dek\u2019s most sinister works<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><iframe loading=\"&quot;lazy&quot;\" src=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/WICGA3VLG7Y&quot;\" width=\"&quot;560&quot;\" height=\"&quot;315&quot;\" frameborder=\"&quot;0&quot;\" allowfullscreen=\"&quot;allowfullscreen&quot;\"\/><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Smyth<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Virginia Woolf remembered clearly the first time she saw Ethel Smyth (1858-1944): \u2018Bustling down the gangway at the Wigmore Hall, in tweeds and spats, a little cock\u2019s feather in your felt, and a general look of angry energy, so that I said, \u201cThat\u2019s <strong><a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/who-was-ethel-smyth\/&quot;\">Ethel Smyth<\/a><\/strong>!\u201d\u2019 That was in 1919 but they didn\u2019t properly meet until 1930. The British composer, by then in her 70s, fell in love with the novelist. \u2018I don\u2019t think I have ever cared for anyone more profoundly and it is I think because of her genius,\u2019 she wrote in her diary. Woolf didn\u2019t feel the same, but the pair became and remained friends, a relationship that was by turns fiery, inspiring and frustrating.<\/p>\n<ul><li><strong><a class=\"&quot;standard-card-new__article-title&quot;\" href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/features\/works\/six-best-works-ethel-smyth\/&quot;\">Six of the best: works by Ethel Smyth<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul><h2><strong>Gesualdo<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Love turned truly disastrous in the case of the Italian composer <strong><a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/carlo-gesualdo\/&quot;\">Don Carlo Gesualdo<\/a><\/strong>, Prince of Venosa (1566-1613). When he was 24, he returned to his castle to discover his wife, Maria d\u2019Avalos, in bed with her lover. He brutally stabbed, slashed and shot the pair, ensuring they were both dead. Despite undoubtedly being responsible for double murder, Gesualdo\u2019s noble status protected him from prosecution. He was, however, plagued by guilt for the rest of his life. Rumours of witchcraft and sadomasochism surrounded him, but he went on to compose music that was extraordinary in its harmonic daring.<\/p>\n<section class=\"&quot;highlight\"><div class=\"&quot;highlight__content\" editor-content=\"\"> <ul><li><strong><a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/features\/articles\/best-pieces-music-inspired-love\/&quot;\">The best pieces of music inspired by love<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/features\/articles\/six-best-love-songs-without-words\/&quot;\">Six of the best love songs\u2026 without words<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/features\/articles\/love-story-behind-berliozs-symphonie-fantastique\/&quot;\">The love story behind Berlioz\u2019s Symphonie fantastique<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/features\/articles\/did-jenny-lind-have-an-affair-with-felix-mendelssohn\/&quot;\">Did Jenny Lind have an affair with Felix Mendelssohn?<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.classical-music.com\/composers\/did-coco-chanel-have-an-affair-with-igor-stravinsky\/&quot;\">Did Coco Chanel have an affair with Igor Stravinsky?<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul><p> <\/p><\/div> <\/section><\/body><\/html>\n<hr class=\"no-tts wp-block-separator\"\/>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Jeremy Pound Published: Thursday, 04 November 2021 at 12:00 am Take a look through the musical history books and you will find plenty who enjoyed long, happy and devoted relationships with their other halves \u2013 such Grieg, Britten or, heading further back, Tallis, for instance. 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