{"id":18759,"date":"2022-10-07T19:00:30","date_gmt":"2022-10-07T17:00:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sciencefocus.com\/?p=125290"},"modified":"2022-10-07T19:16:10","modified_gmt":"2022-10-07T17:16:10","slug":"why-does-it-feel-so-good-to-set-the-world-to-rights-with-a-friend","status":"publish","type":"rss_feed","link":"https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/bbcsciencefocus\/rss_feed\/why-does-it-feel-so-good-to-set-the-world-to-rights-with-a-friend\/","title":{"rendered":"Why does it feel so good to set the world to rights with a friend?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"rssexcerpt\"><\/p><p class=\"rssauthor\">By Christian Jarrett\n                \t\t<\/p><p class=\"rssbyline\">Published: Friday, 07 October 2022 at 12:00 am<\/p><hr class=\"no-tts wp-block-separator\"\/><?xml version=\"1.0\" encoding=\"UTF-8\" standalone=\"yes\"?>\n<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><body><p>When you have a good old chinwag with a friend about the problems of the world and how to solve them, the experience is psychologically satisfying on many levels. For starters, as we\u2019re all too aware from these last few years, global events such as <a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.sciencefocus.com\/the-human-body\/what-nature-can-teach-us-about-friendship-in-the-time-of-coronavirus\/&quot;\">pandemics<\/a> and wars can be incredibly <a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.sciencefocus.com\/news\/eating-marmite-could-help-to-ease-anxiety-and-depression\/&quot;\">anxiety<\/a>-provoking. When you spend time discussing potential solutions, you are,\u00a0in a sense,\u00a0giving and receiving emotional support.\u00a0This\u00a0can be both comforting and cathartic \u2013 even if it\u2019s all hypothetical.<\/p>\n<p>Moreover, if you have this chat with a close friend and you find yourselves in agreement about how to fix the world, the experience will also serve to strengthen your relationship. In a way, you are enjoying the known friendship-boosting benefits of gossiping, but with the focus of your chat zoomed out to the international scale. After all, we tend to be attracted to people who hold similar values and views to our own.<\/p>\n<p>So, if the conversation leaves you with a sense that you and your friend share the same worldview, you\u2019re likely to come away with a satisfying sense of closeness and belonging. What\u2019s more, airing your political values and beliefs \u2013 and having them validated by your friend \u2013 can help shore up your own sense of self. Psychologists call this your \u2018<a href=\"\/\/psychology.iresearchnet.com\/papers\/self-concept-clarity\/&quot;\" target=\"&quot;_blank&quot;\" rel=\"&quot;noopener&quot; noopener noreferrer\">self-concept clarity<\/a>\u2019, which is good for your self-esteem.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Read more:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul><li><a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.sciencefocus.com\/the-human-body\/why-does-laughing-make-you-feel-better\/&quot;\">Why does laughing make you feel better?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.sciencefocus.com\/the-human-body\/why-do-introverts-find-socialising-tiring\/&quot;\">Why do introverts find socialising tiring?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.sciencefocus.com\/the-human-body\/why-do-i-always-cry-when-i-watch-films-on-a-plane\/&quot;\">Why do I always cry when I watch films on a plane?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"&quot;https:\/\/www.sciencefocus.com\/the-human-body\/why-do-i-always-get-an-energy-crash-in-the-afternoon\/&quot;\">Why do I always get an energy crash in the afternoon?<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><em>To submit your questions email us at questions@sciencefocus.com (don\u2019t forget to include your name and location)<\/em><\/p><\/body><\/html>\n<hr class=\"no-tts wp-block-separator\"\/>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Christian Jarrett Published: Friday, 07 October 2022 at 12:00 am When you have a good old chinwag with a friend about the problems of the world and how to solve them, the experience is psychologically satisfying on many levels. For starters, as we\u2019re all too aware from these last few years, global events such [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":18760,"template":"","categories":[30],"acf":{"readingTimeMinutes":"2"},"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/uploads\/sites\/42\/2022\/10\/why-does-it-feel-so-good-to-set-the-world-to-rights-with-a-friend.jpg",1200,511,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/uploads\/sites\/42\/2022\/10\/why-does-it-feel-so-good-to-set-the-world-to-rights-with-a-friend-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/uploads\/sites\/42\/2022\/10\/why-does-it-feel-so-good-to-set-the-world-to-rights-with-a-friend-300x128.jpg",300,128,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/uploads\/sites\/42\/2022\/10\/why-does-it-feel-so-good-to-set-the-world-to-rights-with-a-friend-768x327.jpg",768,327,true],"large":["https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/uploads\/sites\/42\/2022\/10\/why-does-it-feel-so-good-to-set-the-world-to-rights-with-a-friend-1024x436.jpg",800,341,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/uploads\/sites\/42\/2022\/10\/why-does-it-feel-so-good-to-set-the-world-to-rights-with-a-friend.jpg",1200,511,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/uploads\/sites\/42\/2022\/10\/why-does-it-feel-so-good-to-set-the-world-to-rights-with-a-friend.jpg",1200,511,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"importmanagerhub@sprylab.com","author_link":"https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/bbcsciencefocus\/author\/importmanagerhubsprylab-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"By Christian Jarrett Published: Friday, 07 October 2022 at 12:00 am When you have a good old chinwag with a friend about the problems of the world and how to solve them, the experience is psychologically satisfying on many levels. 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