{"id":25409,"date":"2023-03-14T08:00:38","date_gmt":"2023-03-14T07:00:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sciencefocus.com\/?p=138873"},"modified":"2023-03-14T17:37:03","modified_gmt":"2023-03-14T16:37:03","slug":"lucky-girl-syndrome-a-psychologist-explains-how-tiktoks-extreme-positive-thinking-trend-could-backfire","status":"publish","type":"rss_feed","link":"https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/bbcsciencefocus\/rss_feed\/lucky-girl-syndrome-a-psychologist-explains-how-tiktoks-extreme-positive-thinking-trend-could-backfire\/","title":{"rendered":"Lucky Girl Syndrome: A psychologist explains how TikTok\u2019s extreme positive thinking trend could backfire"},"content":{"rendered":"

Is positive affirming really a way to make your dreams come true? <\/p>

By Christian Jarrett\n \t\t<\/p>

Published: Tuesday, 14 March 2023 at 12:00 am<\/p>

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A craze has run wild on TikTok under the hashtag #LuckyGirlSyndrome<\/a>, which at the time of writing has over 600 million views. You can take your pick of popular female Tiktokers that purport to explain the concept.<\/p>\n

Their shared claim is that once they started repeating mantras or \u2018affirmations\u2019 on a regular basis, such as \u201cI genuinely believe that the best things just happen to me\u201d or \u201cThings are always working out for me no matter how it looks at any given point in time\u201d, they created their own luck and amazingly good things started happening.<\/p>\n

For instance, one typical advocate of the method, who credits the technique with her launch of a successful business, a new friendship circle and much more, explains that \u201cif you revert back to the mantra of \u2018I\u2019m so lucky, everything is always happening for me\u2019, and that really gets a feeling of luck and excitement going within you, that changes your frequency right there \u2026 and it will totally magnetise different things into your life.\u201d<\/p>\n

The craze is imbued with a kind of pseudoscience that goes by different names, such as the \u2018law of assumption\u2019, \u2018law of attraction\u2019 and \u2018manifesting\u2019 \u2013 essentially, that by acting as if good things always happen to you, they will. There are echoes of \u2018cosmic ordering\u2019 (once championed by TV star Noel Edmonds \u2013\u00a0remember him?), which is the New Age belief that if you write down a wish list of things you want to happen, they will.<\/p>\n

From a scientific perspective of course such dramatic notions are, on the face of it, nonsense. Critics have also rightly pointed out the potential for harm in spreading the idea that many people facing difficulties in life are to blame for not being positive enough, thus taking the focus off the systemic and societal injustices \u2013\u00a0or old-fashioned bad luck \u2013\u00a0that are truly responsible for their plight.<\/p>\n

And yet so many Tiktokers swear by the positive affirmation method. This is no doubt because of confirmation bias \u2013\u00a0after adopting the Lucky Girl philosophy, they attribute to it any good thing that consequently happens. And they explain away bad outcomes as temporary blips before something even better happens.<\/p>\n

What other aspects of psychology are at play? Simply wishing things to happen might be ineffectual, but many of the advocates for #LuckyGirlSyndrome talk in terms of the power of positive mindsets. Is there any truth to the idea that uttering self-affirming mantras can cultivate a positive mentality that really does have knock-on benefits in life?<\/p>\n

Here, the psychological science becomes a little more nuanced. On the one hand, the research literature suggests that telling yourself you are lucky and visualising your goals \u2013 but without doing anything active to achieve those goals \u2013 is, if anything, likely to backfire.<\/p>\n

There is an evidence-based technique known as mental contrasting that shows we are actually much more likely to achieve our goals if we spend time considering what might go wrong, and what hurdles lie ahead. The reason this is beneficial is that it helps us anticipate future difficulties and find solutions.<\/p>\n

Yet on the other hand, there is a wealth of research showing the benefits of being generally optimistic in life. On average, optimists tend to be happier, live longer and they are healthier<\/a>. This is thought to be because having positive expectations naturally lowers worry and stress.<\/p>\n

Optimists are also encouraged by their positive outlook to invest time and effort into their aims and interests. There is even a legitimate, evidence-based exercise, known as the \u201cbest possible self<\/a>\u201d intervention, that involves spending time imagining yourself in the future with all your dreams and desires fulfilled, which has been shown to increase people\u2019s optimism.<\/p>\n

Note that this line of research does not back up the simplistic #LuckyGirlSyndrome notion that saying you\u2019re lucky makes you lucky, but it does imply there could be benefits to being hopeful and motivated (especially if you follow through with hard work).<\/p>\n

There is also a serious line of research into the beneficial effects of positive self-affirmations<\/a>. However, in the psychological literature, these are not hollow mantras about being lucky in life.<\/p>\n

Rather they are all about a person vocalising and renewing their commitment to what they value \u2013\u00a0for instance, being independent, being a member of a particular social group or organisation (such as a school or university), or being humble or being an athlete. Studies show that affirming one\u2019s values in this way can help protect against unjust stigma and stereotyping.<\/p>\n

So there is a kernel of truth to the idea that affirmations can be beneficial, but the reality is quite different from how they\u2019re presented in the #LuckyGirlSyndrome craze. Overall, this latest Tiktok phenomenon taps loosely into some legitimate techniques from positive psychology, but in a superficial, mystical fashion.<\/p>\n

Cultivating an optimistic mindset and reminding yourself of your values could have some benefits, but unfortunately telling yourself over and again that you are lucky won\u2019t make it so.<\/p>\n

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