{"id":54114,"date":"2024-06-29T09:00:54","date_gmt":"2024-06-29T07:00:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.radiotimes.com\/?p=2063584"},"modified":"2024-06-29T14:26:15","modified_gmt":"2024-06-29T12:26:15","slug":"tnia-miller-lgbtq-representation-needs-to-go-beyond-coming-out-stories","status":"publish","type":"rss_feed","link":"https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/radiotimes\/rss_feed\/tnia-miller-lgbtq-representation-needs-to-go-beyond-coming-out-stories\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u2019Nia Miller: LGBTQ+ representation needs to go beyond coming out stories"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"rssexcerpt\"> RadioTimes.com Guest Editor T&#8217;Nia Miller sees out Pride Month by looking at if coming out stories are a thing of the past. <\/p><p class=\"rssauthor\">By T&#8217;Nia Miller\n                \t\t<\/p><p class=\"rssbyline\">Published: Saturday, 29 June 2024 at 07:00 AM<\/p><hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/><?xml version=\"1.0\" encoding=\"UTF-8\" standalone=\"yes\"?>\n<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><body> <p>Hear me out\u2026 are queer coming out stories a thing of the past?<\/p>\n<p>Coming out stories are undeniably important, but they\u2019re not the be all and end all of the queer experience.<\/p>\n<p>A role is exciting to me when it\u2019s not solely about the struggle LGBTQ+ people go through, but the joy of being human navigating this landscape called life. Where our experiences of sexuality and gender and more are woven into the fabric of stories rather than being at the fore.<\/p>\n<p>We have seen these types of stories more and more in mainstream TV and film in recent years. I believe these types of stories are ultimately more dynamic in \u2018normalising\u2019 the queer experience and moving the needle forward in the right direction.<\/p>\n<p>I can remember some of my early experiences watching TV and there only being three channels at the time. Just seeing anyone that was slightly representative of you was huge.<\/p>\n<p>At my grandparents\u2019 house, we had the one telly in the lounge, and whoever was watching the telly at the time would shout out to the rest of the family: \u201cQuick, quick, quick \u2013 there\u2019s a Black person on TV!\u201d And we\u2019d all run at lightning speed to see a Black figure soft focus in the background \u2013\u00a0 we felt validated. I recall that being a win.<\/p>\n<p>It wasn\u2019t much better with LGBTQ+ representation. In 1994, Channel 4 aired the first female same-sex kiss on British TV on Brookside, a sweet moment between Beth Jordache (played by Anna Friel) and Margaret Clemence (played by Nicola Stephenson). It came five years after <a href=\"https:\/\/www.radiotimes.com\/tv\/soaps\/eastenders\/\">EastEnders<\/a> aired the first kiss between two male characters in 1989. But again, that was it.<\/p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Brookside: Kiss\" width=\"200\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/oowbOKv5Fqw?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen=\"\"\/>\n<p>It really didn\u2019t register how little LGBTQ+ people were represented on TV until much later in my life, but you have to understand the premise and background of which one grows up in the UK as a Black person. You are othered, so it\u2019s just another othering. Being othered is the norm to you.<\/p>\n<p>I remember a friend of a friend, who is from West Africa, saying with a laugh they hadn\u2019t realised they were \u2018Black\u2019 until they came to the UK. Ironically, anyone from the global majority living in the UK, I imagine, has felt othered \u2013 and whilst it hasn\u2019t changed entirely, there has been progress.<\/p>\n<p>It would be remiss and a disservice to the movers and the shakers, the bold change-makers, not to acknowledge that we have come on leaps and bounds in TV and film in the last 50 years! There is still such a long way to go, but I remain ever hopeful.<\/p>\n<p>In the recent run of For Black Boys\u2026 at the Garrick Theatre, it was reported that teenagers were walking out because there\u2019s a gay kiss in it. My jaw literally dropped. In 2024? In London? But it just shows the importance of that representation \u2013 whether it\u2019s representation of different genders, ethnicities or sexualities \u2013 especially for younger generations.<\/p>\n<div class=\"image-handler__container image-handler__container--aspect\" style=\"padding-bottom: calc(100% \/ 1.501210653753);\"> <picture> <source media=\"(max-width: 320px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/3\/2024\/06\/For-Black-Boys-0295365.jpg?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=299%2C199, https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/3\/2024\/06\/For-Black-Boys-0295365.jpg?webp=true&amp;quality=45&amp;resize=599%2C399 2x, https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/3\/2024\/06\/For-Black-Boys-0295365.jpg?webp=true&amp;quality=45&amp;resize=899%2C599 3x, https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/3\/2024\/06\/For-Black-Boys-0295365.jpg?webp=true&amp;quality=45&amp;resize=1199%2C799 4x\" 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768px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/3\/2024\/06\/For-Black-Boys-0295365.jpg?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=407%2C271, https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/3\/2024\/06\/For-Black-Boys-0295365.jpg?webp=true&amp;quality=45&amp;resize=815%2C543 2x, https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/3\/2024\/06\/For-Black-Boys-0295365.jpg?webp=true&amp;quality=45&amp;resize=1223%2C815 3x, https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/3\/2024\/06\/For-Black-Boys-0295365.jpg?webp=true&amp;quality=45&amp;resize=1631%2C1087 4x\" type=\"image\/webp\"> <source media=\"(min-width: 768px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/3\/2024\/06\/For-Black-Boys-0295365.jpg?quality=90&amp;resize=407%2C271, https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/3\/2024\/06\/For-Black-Boys-0295365.jpg?quality=45&amp;resize=815%2C543 2x, 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media=\"(min-width: 590px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/3\/2024\/06\/For-Black-Boys-0295365.jpg?quality=90&amp;resize=555%2C370, https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/3\/2024\/06\/For-Black-Boys-0295365.jpg?quality=45&amp;resize=1110%2C740 2x, https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/3\/2024\/06\/For-Black-Boys-0295365.jpg?quality=45&amp;resize=1667%2C1111 3x, https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/3\/2024\/06\/For-Black-Boys-0295365.jpg?quality=45&amp;resize=2222%2C1481 4x\" type=\"image\/jpeg\"> <img class=\"wp-image-2063601 align size-landscape_thumbnail image-handler__image image-handler__image--aspect no-wrap js-lazyload\" srcset=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" data-src=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/3\/2024\/06\/For-Black-Boys-0295365.jpg?quality=90&amp;resize=620%2C413\" width=\"620\" height=\"413\" alt=\"Posters outside the Garrick Theatre for the play 'For Black Boys Who Have Considered Suicide When the Hue Gets Too Heavy' by Ryan Calais Cameron\" title=\"Posters outside the Garrick Theatre for the play 'For Black Boys Who Have Considered Suicide When the Hue Gets Too Heavy' by Ryan Calais Cameron\"\/>\n<\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/picture>\n<\/div><div class=\"caption-hold\"><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span class=\"caption-copy\"><i class=\"icon-arrow icon-camera-circle\"\/> Garrick Theatre.<\/span><\/figcaption><span class=\"im-image-caption\"> <i>Mike Kemp\/In Pictures via Getty Images)<\/i><\/span><\/div>\n<p>My children have had a very different experience when it comes to representation around them. It is common in our community to be told by your parents that you have to be 10 times stronger to get ahead, and that was instilled in me. I didn\u2019t want to put that pressure on my children, but I want to make them aware of the challenges they will face.<\/p>\n<p>When it came to representation, our house had the world in it \u2013 people from all over the world would either be living with us for a brief spell or visiting, and I had a whole spectrum of friends in the LGBTQ+ community coming over.<\/p>\n<p>So, my children grew up surrounded by that. But then their schools were a very different world, and I know that my son had struggled with that. Some of the things that he was hearing at school \u2013 \u201cgay\u201d was a curse word at one point.<\/p>\n<div class=\"image-handler__container image-handler__container--aspect\" style=\"padding-bottom: calc(100% \/ 1.501210653753);\"> <picture> <source media=\"(max-width: 320px)\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/3\/2021\/11\/SE306Unit00055RT-37addc1.jpg?webp=true&amp;quality=90&amp;resize=299%2C199, https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/3\/2021\/11\/SE306Unit00055RT-37addc1.jpg?webp=true&amp;quality=45&amp;resize=599%2C399 2x, https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/3\/2021\/11\/SE306Unit00055RT-37addc1.jpg?webp=true&amp;quality=45&amp;resize=899%2C599 3x, https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/3\/2021\/11\/SE306Unit00055RT-37addc1.jpg?webp=true&amp;quality=45&amp;resize=1199%2C799 4x\" type=\"image\/webp\"> <source media=\"(max-width: 320px)\" 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class=\"wp-image-1640544 align size-landscape_thumbnail image-handler__image image-handler__image--aspect no-wrap js-lazyload\" srcset=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" data-src=\"https:\/\/images.immediate.co.uk\/production\/volatile\/sites\/3\/2021\/11\/SE306Unit00055RT-37addc1.jpg?quality=90&amp;resize=620%2C413\" width=\"620\" height=\"413\" alt=\"Connor Swindells as Adam Groff, Ncuti Gatwa as Eric Effiong, Asa Butterfield as Otis Milburn in Episode 6 of Sex Education Season 3 sat together\" title=\"Connor Swindells as Adam Groff, Ncuti Gatwa as Eric Effiong, Asa Butterfield as Otis Milburn in Episode 6 of Sex Education Season 3\"\/>\n<\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/picture>\n<\/div><div class=\"caption-hold\"><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span class=\"caption-copy\"><i class=\"icon-arrow icon-camera-circle\"\/> Sex Education.<\/span><\/figcaption><span class=\"im-image-caption\"> <i>Sam Taylor\/NETFLIX<\/i><\/span><\/div>\n<p>Even having been raised around, nurtured and loved by queer people, it was possible for my son to be homophobic for a short spell of his life. I watched him battle home life versus what was acceptable in his circle at school, his friends, his friends\u2019 families which were vastly different to ours in that they were \u2018normal\u2019, in misogynist popular music, TV \u2013 you name it.<\/p>\n<p>It was like fighting the whole damn world. That\u2019s how powerful culture and media outside of the home can be, and why it\u2019s so important to show different types of queer stories \u2013 not just coming out stories, but queer lives embedded in TV and film just like they\u2019re embedded in reality.<\/p> <p>Some TV shows and films have got it spot on. One of my favourites is <a href=\"https:\/\/www.radiotimes.com\/programmes\/sex-education\/\">Sex Education<\/a>. It covers not just the teens but the parents as well, the wider community \u2013 and it goes beyond the stereotypical coming out stories, which still have some place, but I just think if you want to understand our community, you need to go beyond that.<\/p>\n<p>Sex Education is a great place to start. I think that series should be shown to every parent nowadays.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t have all the answers of the journey to more representative queer stories, but part of it is also having LGBTQ+ representation behind the camera. We need to have more queer people in the writers\u2019 rooms, producing, and as showrunners. Then, and only then, are we going to see real change.<\/p>\n<p><strong>T\u2019Nia Miller has been RadioTimes.com Pride Month Guest Editor throughout June.<\/strong><\/p>\n<div class=\"layout-md-rail__primary\">\n<div class=\"post__content\">\n<div class=\"editor-content mb-lg hidden-print js-piano-locked-content\" data-placement=\"Body\">\n<div>\n<p><strong>Check out more of our\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.radiotimes.com\/tv\/drama\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Drama<\/a>\u00a0coverage or\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.radiotimes.com\/movies\/\">Film<\/a>\u00a0coverage or visit our\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.radiotimes.com\/tv\/tv-listings\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">TV Guide<\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0<a title=\"https:\/\/www.radiotimes.com\/streaming-guide\/\" href=\"https:\/\/www.radiotimes.com\/streaming-guide\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Streaming Guide<\/a>\u00a0to see what\u2019s on tonight.\u00a0<\/strong><strong>For more from the biggest stars in TV, listen to\u00a0<a id=\"OWA71a5a05f-6651-b0f3-aeda-3d3d09b909b1\" title=\"https:\/\/www.radiotimes.com\/audio\/podcasts\/\" href=\"https:\/\/www.radiotimes.com\/audio\/podcasts\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-auth=\"NotApplicable\" data-linkindex=\"1\">The Radio Times Podcast<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div> <\/body><\/html>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p> RadioTimes.com Guest Editor T&#8217;Nia Miller sees out Pride Month by looking at if coming out stories are a thing of the past. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":54115,"template":"","categories":[1,5],"acf":[],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/uploads\/sites\/56\/2024\/06\/tnia-miller-lgbtq-representation-needs-to-go-beyond-coming-out-stories-scaled.jpg",2560,1707,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/uploads\/sites\/56\/2024\/06\/tnia-miller-lgbtq-representation-needs-to-go-beyond-coming-out-stories-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/uploads\/sites\/56\/2024\/06\/tnia-miller-lgbtq-representation-needs-to-go-beyond-coming-out-stories-300x200.jpg",300,200,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/uploads\/sites\/56\/2024\/06\/tnia-miller-lgbtq-representation-needs-to-go-beyond-coming-out-stories-768x512.jpg",768,512,true],"large":["https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/uploads\/sites\/56\/2024\/06\/tnia-miller-lgbtq-representation-needs-to-go-beyond-coming-out-stories-1024x683.jpg",800,534,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/uploads\/sites\/56\/2024\/06\/tnia-miller-lgbtq-representation-needs-to-go-beyond-coming-out-stories-1536x1024.jpg",1536,1024,true],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/uploads\/sites\/56\/2024\/06\/tnia-miller-lgbtq-representation-needs-to-go-beyond-coming-out-stories-2048x1365.jpg",2048,1365,true]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"importmanagerhub@sprylab.com","author_link":"https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/radiotimes\/author\/importmanagerhubsprylab-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"RadioTimes.com Guest Editor T'Nia Miller sees out Pride Month by looking at if coming out stories are a thing of the past.","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/radiotimes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/rss_feed\/54114"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/radiotimes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/rss_feed"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/radiotimes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/rss_feed"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/radiotimes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/24"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/radiotimes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/54115"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/radiotimes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=54114"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/radiotimes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=54114"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}