{"id":31666,"date":"2024-02-25T11:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-02-25T10:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/6b1ece7a-32bf-4712-be47-aa7644801a81"},"modified":"2024-02-25T11:34:31","modified_gmt":"2024-02-25T10:34:31","slug":"i-reunited-two-families-a-century-after-a-tragic-double-drowning-brought-them-together","status":"publish","type":"rss_feed","link":"https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/wdytya\/rss_feed\/i-reunited-two-families-a-century-after-a-tragic-double-drowning-brought-them-together\/","title":{"rendered":"I reunited two families a century after a tragic double drowning brought them together"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"rssexcerpt\"><\/p><p class=\"rssauthor\">By Gail Dixon\n      <\/p><p class=\"rssbyline\">Published: Sunday, 25 February 2024 at 10:00 AM<\/p><hr class=\"no-tts wp-block-separator\"\/><?xml version=\"1.0\" encoding=\"UTF-8\" standalone=\"yes\"?>\n<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><body><p>Family folklore can resonate through the generations, and Jennie Long, a genealogist from Stoke Newington in Hackney, North-East London, has a striking example. She vividly remembers being told an emotive story by her dad Eddie when she was growing up.<\/p><p>\u201cWe used to cross Tower Bridge in the car to visit my gran, who lived in Bellingham, Lewisham, South-East London,\u201d Jennie explains. \u201cOne day as we did so, Dad told me that one of his uncles drowned in the Thames and that his father had warned him to avoid the river.\u00a0<\/p><p>\u201cThe tale of the lost uncle was in the back of my mind when I began researching Dad\u2019s tree in 2008. I traced the Long family through my paternal grandfather Harry, who was born in Bethnal Green in 1902.\u00a0<\/p><p>\u201cHis parents were Albert and Hannah Long, who had 10 children, eight of them boys. These were my dad\u2019s uncles, but I didn\u2019t know the name of the relative who had died in the Thames.\u201d<\/p><p>Jennie began researching all of the Long children. \u201cGeorge Long, born in 1911, was the only family member who I couldn\u2019t trace into adulthood. Unless there was a child whose birth I hadn\u2019t found, George had to be the brother who drowned.\u201d<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">The Longs c.1921, with George on the far right<\/figcaption><\/figure><p>Knowing that the family lived in Camberwell, Southwark, in the 1920s, Jennie began searching the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.whodoyouthinkyouaremagazine.com\/getting-started\/finding-birth-marriage-and-death-records\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">General Register Office indexes<\/a>. She found the death entry for a George Long, age 11, registered<br\/>in St Olave\u2019s, Southwark.\u00a0<\/p><p>\u201cI ordered the death certificate, which confirmed that George was the son of Albert and Hannah Long, and that he had drowned while swimming off Horselydown Stairs, near Butler\u2019s Wharf. I began to wonder what the story was behind the tragedy.\u201d<\/p><p>Jennie noticed tiny handwriting on the certificate recording that an inquest into George\u2019s death had taken place. \u201cThe mention of an inquest is always exciting for family historians, because there\u2019s a chance that it will have been reported in the newspapers.\u00a0<\/p><p>\u201cThis was in 2008 and many <a href=\"https:\/\/www.whodoyouthinkyouaremagazine.com\/tutorials\/old-newspapers\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">old newspapers<\/a> were not yet digitised, so I had to scan through microfiche editions at Southwark Archives. It became apparent that drownings in the Thames were far from unusual, and they generally received only passing mention. I was astonished, therefore, to find a lengthy report of the inquest and funeral in several newspapers, including the <em>South London Press<\/em>. The discovery was a spine-tingling moment.\u201d<\/p><blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\"><p>&#8220;The discovery was a spine-tingling moment&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote><p>George had been one of a group of boys playing by Horselydown Stairs on 3 August 1922. This was on the south side of the Thames, by Tower Bridge.<\/p><p>The boys were spotted by Albert Garlick, a watchman on the <em>Kestrel<\/em>, a Thames barge moored close to the wharf. At the inquest, Garlick stated that the tide was running strongly. When George jumped in, he found himself out of his depth almost immediately.<\/p><p>Although he could swim, the current carried George away from the shore in the direction of the <em>Kestrel<\/em>. A 22-year-old bargeman called Edgar Cheesman threw off his shoes and dived into the water.\u00a0<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"https:\/\/c02.purpledshub.com\/uploads\/sites\/52\/2024\/02\/Edgar-Cheeseman.jpg\" alt=\"Black and white photograph of a young white man in Royal Navy uniform\" class=\"wp-image-19166\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Edgar Cheeseman in 1917<\/figcaption><\/figure><p>Edgar was a strong swimmer and managed to reach George twice, but the current tore them apart. Unable to do more, Edgar turned back towards the barge. His colleagues threw him a rope, but he was unable to catch it.\u00a0<\/p><p>A flotilla of boats joined the rescue attempt, but by this time Edgar and George had disappeared under the barge. Their bodies were recovered when the Thames Division Police dragged the river by the bridge.<\/p><p>\u201cUntil I read the newspaper report, I didn\u2019t know that Edgar Cheesman had jumped into the Thames to try to rescue George. This came as a huge surprise. It was very difficult to read of the double tragedy, and I felt so moved by Edgar\u2019s heroic efforts.\u201d<\/p><blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\"><p>&#8220;I felt so moved by Edgar\u2019s heroic efforts&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote><p>At the inquest, George\u2019s father expressed his deep gratitude for Edgar\u2019s bravery. The deputy coroner recommended that the case be brought to the attention of the Carnegie Hero Fund Trust.<\/p><p>Since its inception, the fund has recognised 6,000 individuals for bravery. It granted the Cheesman family \u00a31 a week for a year, and included Edgar\u2019s name in its \u2018Roll of Heroes &amp; Heroines\u2019.\u00a0<\/p><p>\u201cThe story didn\u2019t end there. Several newspapers published vivid and detailed accounts of George and Edgar\u2019s joint funeral. The tragedy resonated throughout the community who lived around Bermondsey\u2019s dock, where the Cheesmans were well known.\u201d<\/p><blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\"><p>&#8220;The tragedy resonated throughout the community who lived around Bermondsey\u2019s dock&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote><p>Edgar lived with his parents and siblings at 26 Curlew Street, which led directly onto the Thames near Horselydown Stairs. \u201cOn the day of the funeral, Edgar\u2019s cort\u00e8ge left his home and wound its way among the wharves. A great concourse of people joined the procession as a mark of respect.\u00a0<\/p><p>\u201cThe cort\u00e8ge then proceeded to the Longs\u2019 home in Camberwell, and both coffins were taken to Nunhead Cemetery in Southwark. Edgar and George were laid to rest in the same grave.\u00a0<\/p><p>\u201cAll four Cheesman brothers and four Long brothers were pallbearers, with two from each family to each coffin. Presumably my grandfather, Harry, who was 21 at the time, was one of them.<\/p><p>\u201cIt was very touching to read of how the two families came together that day, united in grief. Both had lost a child, and were now inextricably linked.\u201d<\/p><blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\"><p>\u201cIt was very touching to read of how the two families came together that day, united in grief&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote><p>Jennie decided to build a tree on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ancestry.co.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow\">Ancestry<\/a> for Edgar, to find out more about the family. He already appeared on a couple of trees, but she uncovered little more information.\u00a0<\/p><p>\u201cA few years later, I was chatting to a cousin about the tragedy and she remarked that the centenary wasn\u2019t far off. That got me thinking: if we were going to mark this occasion for our family, then it really ought to involve the Cheesmans as well.\u201d<\/p><p>Jennie researched Edgar\u2019s family again and found more contacts, including Steve Fowler, Edgar\u2019s great nephew. \u201cI decided to plan a get-together in London and reunite the Long and Cheesman families,\u201d she says. \u201cI also wanted to honour Edgar\u2019s bravery, because he\u2019s a hero to me.\u201d<\/p><p>Jennie got in touch with Steve, who was delighted to take part.<\/p><p>\u201cI\u2019ve known the story of Edgar for as long as I can remember,\u201d Steve explains. \u201cHe was born in Bermondsey, South-East London, in 1899, and his parents were Oliver and Clara Cheesman. He had 11 siblings, including my grandmother, Kate, and was known in the family as \u2018Tom\u2019.\u00a0<\/p><p>\u201cOn his 18th birthday in 1917, Edgar joined the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.whodoyouthinkyouaremagazine.com\/tutorials\/military\/how-find-royal-navy-service-records\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Royal Navy<\/a> and served on HMS <em>Benbow<\/em>. This battleship escorted fleets of merchant vessels, protecting them from U-boats. After being demobbed, he worked as a lighterman on Thames barges.\u00a0<\/p><p>\u201cThe family kept Edgar\u2019s memory alive, and often spoke of his selflessness. I remember Kate saying, \u2018Everybody loved Tom \u2013 he was everybody\u2019s favourite.\u2019 Two of his nephews were named after him, and my father Eric was given the second name Thomas, after his family name.\u201d<\/p><blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\"><p>\u201cThe family kept Edgar\u2019s memory alive, and often spoke of his selflessness&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote><p>He adds, \u201cIt\u2019s a fitting gesture to remember both Edgar and George. Well done to Jennie for being the inspiration behind it.\u201d<\/p><p>Jennie and her family met Steve and the Cheesmans for the first time on Saturday 6 August at The Dean Swift Pub, near Butler\u2019s Wharf. The venue dates back to Victorian times, and Edgar\u2019s family may well have drank there.\u00a0<\/p><p>The reunion lived up to everyone\u2019s hopes. \u201cWe had 35 adults and two babies in attendance: nine from the Long side, and 26 from the Cheesman side \u2013 four generations including the babies,\u201d she reveals.<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"https:\/\/c02.purpledshub.com\/uploads\/sites\/52\/2024\/02\/Reunion.jpg\" alt=\"Colour photograph of a large group of people at a reunion in a pub\" class=\"wp-image-19167\"\/><\/figure><p>\u201cSteve and I made welcome speeches explaining what the lives of our families would have been like in working-class Bermondsey and Camberwell in the early 20th century, what happened in 1922, and our research into our trees. The speeches were recorded so they could be shared with relations who couldn\u2019t attend.\u201d<\/p><p>After the speeches there was a buffet lunch, and the chance to socialise and share photographs, documents and family stories. Most of the attendees also paid a visit to Curlew Street and Horselydown Stairs, guided by a walking map that Steve had prepared. There is a little beach and the tide was low, so people could go down to the riverside.<\/p><p>Steve says that the last guests left the pub around 7pm, adding, \u201cThe atmosphere was really positive, and members of both families engaged enthusiastically.\u201d<\/p><p>\u201cIt seemed natural for the families to reunite and mark the anniversary,\u201d Jennie concludes. \u201cEdgar\u2019s bravery is the reason why we know so much of George\u2019s story. The day proved to be a lovely and memorable occasion for both families, and very joyful despite the sadness of the event that inspired it.\u201d<\/p> <\/body><\/html>\n<hr class=\"no-tts wp-block-separator\"\/>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Gail Dixon Published: Sunday, 25 February 2024 at 10:00 AM Family folklore can resonate through the generations, and Jennie Long, a genealogist from Stoke Newington in Hackney, North-East London, has a striking example. 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