{"id":33208,"date":"2024-04-26T11:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-04-26T09:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/8616a394-7a17-43e8-bb8b-323cc6b61446"},"modified":"2024-04-26T11:34:30","modified_gmt":"2024-04-26T09:34:30","slug":"my-father-never-spoke-about-his-war-but-i-discovered-he-could-have-been-at-the-liberation-of-belsen","status":"publish","type":"rss_feed","link":"https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/wdytya\/rss_feed\/my-father-never-spoke-about-his-war-but-i-discovered-he-could-have-been-at-the-liberation-of-belsen\/","title":{"rendered":"My father never spoke about his war\u2026 but I discovered he could have been at the liberation of Belsen"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"rssexcerpt\"><\/p><p class=\"rssauthor\">By <\/p><p class=\"rssbyline\">Published: Friday, 26 April 2024 at 09:00 AM<\/p><hr class=\"no-tts wp-block-separator\"\/><?xml version=\"1.0\" encoding=\"UTF-8\" standalone=\"yes\"?>\n<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><body><p>On the night of 11 December 1940, air-raid sirens blared out over the Essex town of Southend-on-Sea. Newlyweds Stan and Doris King had returned from the sweet factory that they owned to their home on Mount Avenue. But there was little time to head for safety before an enormous explosion was heard.<\/p><p>A bomb had dropped just yards from their home. Miraculously, Stan and Doris survived and none of their neighbours was hurt. Stephen King is their youngest child, and he is fascinated with his parents\u2019 war. \u201cStan and Doris never talked about the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.whodoyouthinkyouaremagazine.com\/tutorials\/military\/second-world-war-army-records\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Second World War<\/a>,\u201d he explains. \u201cThey were positive, cheerful people who enjoyed looking to the future.<\/p><p>\u201cI became interested in the war about 10 years ago and started researching its effect on Southend, where I was born in 1947. I was at the Essex Record Office in Chelmsford one day and the archivist showed me a \u2018bomb map\u2019. This fascinating record marked the location of every one of the 800 bombs that had fallen on Southend during the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.whodoyouthinkyouaremagazine.com\/feature\/when-did-the-blitz-start\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Blitz<\/a>.\u00a0<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Stanley King and Doris Cockshull&#8217;s wedding on 9 June 1940 at Forest Hill Church, South London, with Stanley&#8217;s brother James as best man plus Doris\u2019 sister Harriet<\/figcaption><\/figure><p>\u201cI studied it and was shocked to discover that bomb number 333 exploded near 44 Mount Avenue, where Mum and Dad lived at the time. I was amazed that they had never mentioned it. Suddenly I realised that there was a whole period of my parents\u2019 lives that I knew little about. It was too late to ask them, because they had both passed away, but my curiosity was awakened.\u201d<\/p><p>In a labour of love, Stephen has spent five years researching his father\u2019s wartime service and his mother\u2019s challenge to run their confectionery business and raise a young family. \u201cI started writing up my research for my relations, and self-published it as a book.\u201d\u00a0<\/p><p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.waterstones.com\/book\/humbugs-and-doodlebugs\/stephen-james-king\/9781913036256\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow\">Humbugs and Doodlebugs: A Wartime Story of Seaside Sweetmakers<\/a><\/em> offers a fascinating insight into an era that many of our parents and grandparents lived through. It is also a tender homage to a remarkable couple.\u00a0<\/p><p>Stanley George King was born in 1911 in Middlesex. Forty years earlier, his grandfather Sam had opened his first sweet factory in Holborn and it became a thriving business. Sweets had historically been the preserve of the wealthy, but in the late 19th century cheap sugar imports made confectionery available to the masses.\u00a0<\/p><p>Stan trained to be a mechanic and also worked for the family business in South London. In 1936, he met Doris Cockshull at a local <a href=\"https:\/\/www.whodoyouthinkyouaremagazine.com\/feature\/dance-halls\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">dance hall<\/a> and they started courting. \u201cDad had a car, an Austin 7 Convertible, and he used to take Mum for days out at the seaside in Southend. It must have become a special place for them.\u201d<\/p><p>In 1937, Stan set up his own confectionery business in Southend with his brother James: J&amp;S King Ltd. They set to work with sugar-boiling equipment, ingredients, sweet moulds, boxes and labels.\u00a0<\/p><p>Stephen explains, \u201cIt was a production line of Black Jacks, seaside rock, humbugs, nut-rock bars and \u2018cokernut\u2019 toffee. I remember helping in the sweet factory as a boy and watching my father boil up huge pans of toffee. The smell was amazing.\u201d Demand for seaside treats made the \u2018Sweet Kings of Southend\u2019 a thriving concern, and orders flooded in from confectionery shops located across East Anglia, Kent and Sussex.\u00a0<\/p><blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\"><p>\u201cIt was a production line of Black Jacks, seaside rock, humbugs, nut-rock bars and \u2018cokernut\u2019 toffee&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote><p>Stan and Doris married in 1940, and set up home in Southend. The area was at risk of invasion, and only residents or those with official permits could enter. Bombs raids were a frequent occurrence, and Spitfires and Messerschmitts fought the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.whodoyouthinkyouaremagazine.com\/tutorials\/military\/the-5-best-websites-for-researching-battle-of-britain-history\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Battle of Britain<\/a> overhead.\u00a0<\/p><p>After a short spell at the Ford Dagenham motor plant for war work, Stan enlisted in the Royal Army Service Corps (RASC) in 1941. This was the Army\u2019s main transport service. Doris worked hard to keep the confectionery business going with help from Stan\u2019s father Samuel.\u00a0<\/p><p>Wartime brought desperate tragedy to Stephen\u2019s family. \u201cAs a child, I had visited my Uncle James\u2019 grave with my parents and grandparents,\u201d he says. \u201cAll I knew was that he had joined the Royal Artillery, and died in a train crash during the war.\u201d<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"https:\/\/c02.purpledshub.com\/uploads\/sites\/52\/2024\/04\/Humbugs-1.jpg\" alt=\"Black and white photograph of a man in First World War uniform with his wife and two little boys\" class=\"wp-image-20124\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Stephen\u2019s paternal grandparents Grace and Samuel King, with his uncle James and, on Samuel\u2019s knee,<br\/>his father Stan<\/figcaption><\/figure><p>Stephen began researching online, and horrific details emerged. James was killed in a rail disaster on 11 February 1942 at Beighton Station near Sheffield. A troop train carrying 170 sailors and 90 Royal Artillery soldiers was travelling at night. A goods train transporting a massive steel plate had been shunted into a siding and, unknown to its driver and guard, the plate had slid out of place to protrude over the main line. As the troop train sped past the siding the steel plate sliced through three carriages, killing 14 soldiers and injuring many more.\u00a0<\/p><p>\u201cIt was heart-rending to read the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.whodoyouthinkyouaremagazine.com\/tutorials\/old-newspapers\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">old newspaper<\/a> articles and crash-investigation reports. It brought it all home to me because my middle name is James, after my uncle.\u00a0<\/p><p>\u201cI can\u2019t imagine the suffering of my parents and grandparents when they were told of his death.\u201d What\u2019s worse, Doris and Stan had to grieve separately because at the time Stan was on an engineer fitter course in Wiltshire.<\/p><p>Stephen was keen to discover more of Stan\u2019s Army service, but all he had to go on was his Army paybook and a letter that gave his RASC regiment number: 486.\u00a0<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"823\" height=\"1347\" src=\"https:\/\/c02.purpledshub.com\/uploads\/sites\/52\/2024\/04\/Stan.jpeg\" alt=\"Black and white photograph of a young man in Second World War army uniform\" class=\"wp-image-20125\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Stan in his army uniform<\/figcaption><\/figure><p>A visit to The National Archives at Kew resulted in a huge breakthrough. Records for 486 company were marked \u201cConfidential until 2045\u201d, but Stephen was allowed to read and photograph them.\u00a0<\/p><p>\u201cA letter Stan sent home told us that he was in the \u2018workshop\u2019 group of the 486 because of his mechanical expertise. Finally, I could identify him to a group of about 50 men out of an army of four million, and follow his wartime service across Europe.\u201d\u00a0<\/p><p>After weeks of gruelling training, Stan was based in barracks across the south and west of England. He saw little of Doris during this time, with just a few weeks\u2019 leave each year. Her life must have been lonely and hard, since there were few relatives living nearby.<\/p><p>In 1942, Doris gave birth to a son John. Having a baby during the war held considerable risk, Stephen reveals: \u201cDuring air raids, women on the labour ward were told not to get out of bed but to pull meal trolleys over their heads. Bombs could fall at any moment in the hospital grounds, blowing the windows in.\u201d<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"877\" height=\"1315\" src=\"https:\/\/c02.purpledshub.com\/uploads\/sites\/52\/2024\/04\/Doris.jpeg\" alt=\"Black and white photograph of a young woman in 1940s clothes\" class=\"wp-image-20126\"\/><\/figure><p>There were few people to support Doris, and Stan had to wait five weeks to meet his son. \u201cMum and Dad were a very loving, supportive couple \u2013 they wrote to each other almost every day. He was always more worried about the danger to his family than he was for his own safety.\u201d<\/p><p>By 1944, Doris was pregnant again and Stan applied for leave, but it was refused because D-Day was imminent. He wouldn\u2019t get to meet his son Michael until he was 10 months old.<\/p><p>\u201cAfter the first landings on 6 June, Stan sailed to France a few days later, landing on Juno Beach. He would have driven his lorry off a landing craft onto the beach amid soldiers, vehicles and military equipment. They were still in range of the German artillery, and would have heard battle raging in the distance.\u00a0<\/p><blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\"><p>\u201cAfter the first landings on 6 June, Stan sailed to France a few days later&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote><p>\u201cFortunately, I had a first-hand account of the action 486 company saw, which was given to me by the curator at the Royal Logistics Corps Museum. The book describes how Stan and his comrades worked on the frontline, going ahead of infantry units to repair roads and remake or build bridges. They were just a few hundred yards from the enemy, and often under fire from mortars and shells. Landmines were a constant danger too.\u201d\u00a0<\/p><p>Stan served in northern France, Belgium and Holland during the war, travelling though smashed-up villages and towns. \u201cHe always remembered how skinny the Dutch children were. This was one of the sights that upset him the most.\u201d<\/p><p>By March 1945, Stan was in northern Germany, supporting tanks that on 15 April were part of the task force that liberated Belsen concentration camp. \u201cDad was two and a half miles from the camp, and would have heard first-hand accounts of the atrocities from other soldiers. I wonder if he ever saw the camp himself?\u201d<\/p><p>Stan was awarded home leave in May 1945 and could finally hold baby Michael. He continued to serve in Germany until 1946, and was promoted to the rank of sergeant. His military conduct was rated \u201cexcellent\u201d.<\/p><p>\u201cI can understand now why Stan didn\u2019t want to talk about the war,\u201d says Stephen. \u201cIt must have brought back awful memories for him. Mum was fighting her own war at home, trying to run the sweet factory and raise young children amid the constant threat of bombing raids.\u00a0<\/p><p>\u201cThey were a very close and loving couple. I imagine the most challenging part of the war for them was their separation. Discovering more about their wartime experience has been emotional at times, but so rewarding. It has made me appreciate and admire them all the more.\u201d<\/p><p><em>Do you have a family story to share with<\/em> Who Do You Think You Are? Magazine? <em>Email <a href=\"mailto:wdytyaeditorial@ourmedia.co.uk\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">wdytyaeditorial@ourmedia.co.uk<\/a> for your chance to appear in the magazine.<\/em><\/p> <\/body><\/html>\n<hr class=\"no-tts wp-block-separator\"\/>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Published: Friday, 26 April 2024 at 09:00 AM On the night of 11 December 1940, air-raid sirens blared out over the Essex town of Southend-on-Sea. Newlyweds Stan and Doris King had returned from the sweet factory that they owned to their home on Mount Avenue. 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