{"id":34795,"date":"2024-06-24T11:29:17","date_gmt":"2024-06-24T09:29:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/599b140e-73e6-4c75-a973-4cee13c5da13"},"modified":"2024-06-24T11:53:16","modified_gmt":"2024-06-24T09:53:16","slug":"i-discovered-the-missing-pieces-of-my-fathers-life-in-his-liverpool-orphanage-records","status":"publish","type":"rss_feed","link":"https:\/\/c01.purpledshub.com\/wdytya\/rss_feed\/i-discovered-the-missing-pieces-of-my-fathers-life-in-his-liverpool-orphanage-records\/","title":{"rendered":"I discovered the missing pieces of my father\u2019s life in his Liverpool orphanage records"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"rssexcerpt\"><\/p><p class=\"rssauthor\">By <\/p><p class=\"rssbyline\">Published: Monday, 24 June 2024 at 09:29 AM<\/p><hr class=\"no-tts wp-block-separator\"\/><?xml version=\"1.0\" encoding=\"UTF-8\" standalone=\"yes\"?>\n<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><body><p>My father Leslie Dewhurst was born, along with his siblings, in Liverpool. When I was a child, my Aunty Nora told me that when their father died young of heart disease, their mother couldn\u2019t look after them and the children were placed in an orphanage. In 1939 they were <a href=\"https:\/\/www.whodoyouthinkyouaremagazine.com\/feature\/evacuees\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">evacuated<\/a> to the Lake District.\u00a0<\/p><p>A website revealed that my father and his brothers were sent to Hawse End House near Keswick. I was amazed to learn that it belonged to Catherine Marshall (1880\u20131961), a pacifist and leading light in the suffrage movement. Her family files, letters and papers were archived at the Carlisle Archive Centre within the Marshall family collection. Finding my father\u2019s records was a sheer fluke. For one thing, the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.whodoyouthinkyouaremagazine.com\/tutorials\/orphanages-and-childrens-homes\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">orphanage records<\/a> were left behind when Hawse End House closed and discovered when it was sold. Someone saw their value and passed them to the archive \u2013 in those days, there was no legal requirement to keep such documents.<\/p><p>In addition, the Carlisle archives are tricky to negotiate. If I had not found the link to Catherine Marshall, I would never have found my father\u2019s records. If you just search for his name it says, \u201cNo record found.\u201d However, Leslie Dewhurst DMAR13\/13 is there, along with dozens of other boys\u2019 records \u2013 including those of his brothers: Ronald and John. I needed to know what was in those files, but the data protection law meant that it wasn\u2019t going to be simple.<\/p><p>I contacted the archivist at Carlisle by email. I was told I would need to seek permission from Liverpool Children\u2019s Services (LCS) before I was allowed access to my father\u2019s records. I contacted LCS, sending all the documentation it requested to prove I was next of kin. Some weeks later, I was informed that it had no record of my father. I couldn\u2019t believe it, but I wasn\u2019t going to give up.<\/p><p>I got back in touch with Carlisle Archives and spoke to a more experienced archivist, who physically located the file and found that, in fact, I needed to seek permission from the Church in Liverpool to view its contents. She contacted the secretary to Liverpool diocese and gave me his details. When I emailed him, his response was positive and immediate. He had never been approached to give his permission in this way before. I sent him the relevant documentation and he liaised with the Carlisle archivist. Within a few weeks, I held the photocopied contents of my father\u2019s file in my hands. I was overjoyed \u2013 it felt better than winning the lottery!\u00a0<\/p><p>These sheets of paper allowed me to fill in the missing pieces of my father\u2019s life. I discovered how his father died, where they had lived in Liverpool, the school he had attended, where he\u2019d been baptised. These were all places I had known as a child. Once Dad was 14 years old, he was enrolled in a YMCA scheme called \u2018British Boys for British Farms\u2019. He worked on a farm near Ormskirk and I read in his file that he would visit his mother in Liverpool, taking her what little he earned.<\/p><p>The file includes a letter from the farm to the orphanage commenting, \u201cWe are having a little trouble with this lad.\u201d It seems he was under pressure to return home. His mother was finding it hard to make ends meet, and was asking other family members to write to him. You could interpret this as her trying to apply pressure, but what the orphanage authorities didn\u2019t know was that she could neither read nor write herself. Dad\u2019s file ended in August 1942. I assume he returned to his mother to support her.<\/p><p>My grandfather\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.whodoyouthinkyouaremagazine.com\/getting-started\/finding-birth-marriage-and-death-records\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">death certificate<\/a> revealed that he died of heart failure, aged just 36. It proved portentous as Leslie, John and Ronald were taken in the same way at young ages.<\/p><p>I really felt for my grandmother \u2013 can any of us truly imagine how hard it must be for a mother to have no option other than to give up her children? She wasn\u2019t bad, just poor. But Dad would not have survived his childhood had the authorities not intervened \u2013 and I wouldn\u2019t be here.<\/p> <\/body><\/html>\n<hr class=\"no-tts wp-block-separator\"\/>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Published: Monday, 24 June 2024 at 09:29 AM My father Leslie Dewhurst was born, along with his siblings, in Liverpool. When I was a child, my Aunty Nora told me that when their father died young of heart disease, their mother couldn\u2019t look after them and the children were placed in an orphanage. 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